do i pick the senior or freshman?

[mizter6]

yea i seem to created myself some problems.

so im a senior and i known this girl for a about 5 years. i liked her in the pass in my afc stages but ive gotten over her. we got pretty close and now she likes me and part of me is willing to go with the flow and the other part of me is looking at all the other girls i can choose from. but i dont really want to break her heart cuz im just sometimes to kind
im especially lookin at a freshman girl whos has a nice hot body and is really cute. shes a bit shy with me but i think she enjoys my company.


so what now senior girl is about a 6 and the freshman girl is about an 8

senior girl a bit manlyish but well more acceptable to the corupt world (parties and ****)

i dont see the freshman girl alot either but see the senior girl about once every 2 days

help me decide!!!! cuz im f*ckin going insane

[penkitten]

flip a coin

[j8snx1]

Lol NO! don't flip a coin :D Well...the question really boils down to you; which girl would you prefer?

I'd just take a quick minute to think:

1) Which girl am I more comfortable with?
2) Which one would I prefer to be with later on?
3) Which one seems to have more potential?
4) etc etc etc

But that would be over-analyzing. So I'd say test 'em both.
*****BIASED ADVICE ALERT*****
Take each of them seperate days to some wacky or ridiculous place for a date...like McDonald's or something. If the girl likes YOU, and not your money or anything, she'd probably go with you just to be with you. On the other hand, if she starts b*tching about "WHY ARE WE GOING TO MCDONALD's?! IS THIS A BAD JOKE? LETS GO TO TONY ROMA'S" then alarms should go off in your head.

:crackup:

[dirtyvibe]

senior freshman is kinda young

[Bling]

Half your age +7. 18/2 + 7 = 16. Best not be dating 14 year olds...

[splinterkb]

You gotta keep dating classy man. If all the senior chicks see you dating a freshman, it's gonna ruin a lot of your chances. Id best stick to juniors or seniors... MAYBE a sophmore, but not a freshman.

[AC/DC]

Originally posted by splinterkb
You gotta keep dating classy man. If all the senior chicks see you dating a freshman, it's gonna ruin a lot of your chances. Id best stick to juniors or seniors... MAYBE a sophmore, but not a freshman.

If possible, juss f*ck around with her on the side.

[dannowillbookem]

i like the going to mcdonalds idea. that would work.

[Find`It]

Originally posted by splinterkb
You gotta keep dating classy man. If all the senior chicks see you dating a freshman, it's gonna ruin a lot of your chances. Id best stick to juniors or seniors... MAYBE a sophmore, but not a freshman.

WHOA, Hold on!

Is this about what everyone else thinks? I thought this was YOU picking between 2 girls that LIKE YOU ALREADY This is about deciding between someone you've known for a while who is your age and more accustomed to the reality of it all, or a cute freshman girl with i nice Ü body.

It's up to YOU! Does a Don Juan CARE if he's dating a Freshman?

No. (he does care about her though)

Seriously, know what's important to you, and know where you are getting your confidence from.

If it's from how everyone else thinks about you, then go solve that problem first.

[splinterkb]

Whats the point of building a smooth reputation, only to have it be broken by dating some chick thats way younger than you? It wouldn't look good... trust me. It looks like the only women you can pick up are way younger than you.

[mizter6]

logically speaking to me right now would be the senior girl but every time i see the freshman girl i get that strong attraction feeling. and it makes me feel that if i go with the senior it would be a failed relationship in the end. or at least an unhappy one. yet im not turn off by the senior either.
Which girl am I more comfortable with?
both, maybe the senior more

Which one would I prefer to be with later on?
the freshman

Which one seems to have more potential?
eh no idea

and both girls aint money *****s.. at least not yet but i think i might do that to see the flow of things

[CrazyAsianBiker]

You are a senior, jacksh!t of a repuation will matter after high school.

If you don't go for the freshmen, you will most likely regret it because once you are too old your chances of getting a younger girl is basically zero.

The Freshmen is going to be an idiot, no matter how smart freshmen seem to be, trust me they are naive no matter what. There is no 14 year old girl who is emotionally and socially mature.

They only pretend to be because they are being freshly introduced into the world and have these "ideals" that they will let go of in about a year.

So here are the basic outcomes.

Senior = 6 month up to LTR relationship, she will be mature, and not really stupid and less likely to make stupid decisions. Seems like somewhat of a one itis to you, maybe a hit it and quit it here so you don't have any regrets later?

Freshmen = Naive, cute, fresh. Will most likely turn into some type of pseudo relationship where she believes she truly loves you. Seems like you are lustfully inclined more towards the freshmen, if that's how it is, then go for it now, because you will never get it again unless you feel like being a child molester which is wrong in more ways than one.


One thing though, If the senior knew you in your AFC stages she will most likely not respect you in your relationship no matter what. These girls are danger, because they will try and stroke your ego and convince you to think that they are completely respecting you but they are not. Freshmen will most likely completely respect you, have sex with you a few times, then feel like having sex with other guys and exploring as she finds out just a little bit more about the world.

If the senior has a past of being somewhat promiscuous, or a party animal, then DITCH IT quick. Because you are the person they are settling on AFTER their fun, they will never ever respect you for the life of you.

I'm leaning more towards the freshmen.

Just my 2 cents.

[mizter6]

One thing though, If the senior knew you in your AFC stages she will most likely not respect you in your relationship no matter what. These girls are danger, because they will try and stroke your ego and convince you to think that they are completely respecting you but they are not.

wow thats really.. something i never thought about...

[CrazyAsianBiker]

It happens. Honestly i'd go for the freshmen. F*ck moral values it's only a 3 year difference. F*ck reputation. Quite in fact, the senior could be jealous because this girl is so cute and fresh and the other girl could've been promiscuous etc.

I vote Freshmen. Enjoy the good old days while you can :).

[DaKidS3]

Neither.

One is too young, and the other is manly.

[Find`It]

whatever you choose, this is my conclusion.

go with the freshman.

Stun the other girls as you choose a Freshman over them! Make them wonder why they are not good enough for you!

So what if somebody thinks less of you for going out with a Freshman, you shouldnt't care what someone else thinks about you! Really, you're a SENIOR! You will get gossip behind your back, but anyone who's nearby won't be showing you anything but respect. I'd like to see someone make fun of you for dating a cute Freshman girl IN YOUR FACE.

So go get her and be glad that you won't be regretting a wussy decision. A man, if thats what you are, shouldn't hesitate to go and get what he wants.

Oh, and don't be suprised if all the other girls look more intrested in you, 'cause trust me, the thought of you considering a Freshman to be better than an upperclassman will drive them nuts!

[klasik]

wow ok hard choice... one that is manly and one that is not lols go for the freshman! when you are 24, she would be 20.. that is not bad at all =)

[splinterkb]

You guys must have no dignity or self respect. Why would you rather date some immature freshman than a senior whos a lot more mature and just makes for a better girl friend?

[wavejams007]

Originally posted by splinterkb
You guys must have no dignity or self respect. Why would you rather date some immature freshman than a senior whos a lot more mature and just makes for a better girl friend?

good point indeed.

[Jester]

Originally posted by DaKidS3
Neither.

One is too young, and the other is manly.


well-stated.

[Find`It]

well pardon me, my mistake, i didn't notice that he called the Freshman immature.

That changes it all.

Not all of em are going to be immature (besides the obvious meaning of not fully matured), but i guess it was just wishfull thinking.

Next time you check back on this, mizter6, i wanna know why you would even consider a Freshman that you thought of as "Immiture"

I'm just curious.

[JayUK]

Go wit ure instincts man!
Also if you go wit the freshman (not really sure wat that means livin in england!) then youll get to know all her mates, so if u fail wit her, or u stop goin out wit her, ul kno a lot of fresh gurls who love the older guys! ;)
I hooked up wit this gurl, an all her mates wer like 'whoa theres that older guy **** was with' all her mates will want u aswell, itlll be awesome, threesomes everyhwere man!
An if u used to have a thing wit this manly gurl, an u didnt, now u do agen, then likeliness shell come back around agen for u, u cant go as young as freshman wen ure 20-21 so u mite aswell go for the freshman, then u can pull gurls who r the same age as manly gurl, as u get older!
Goodluck duuude!

[mizter6]

ummm... i never did say she was immature but shes definately not fully mature. shes young and like many freshman in our school all innocent and childish. shes seems more mature than most of the other freshie girls... so i guess its in range of my maturity.

[splinterkb]

Ok so theres no inbetween... she's either mature or she's not. And if shes not quit mature, shes still immature. You gotta set high standards for yourself man. When other women see good standards, they'll not only think you're classy, but also a hot commodity. You're setting yourself up for the future. I'm sure you won't lose total contact with every senior girl in your class.

[Find`It]

splinter, i'm puzzled that you would, as a senior DJ, consider the oppinions of the other girls to be more important than mizter6's relationships. If he considers the freshman to be a good or reasonable choice that he wants to go for, then why shouldn't he (if not JUST so he can speak from experience the next time?)

This site is full of articles and tips that help you to QUIT caring about what anyone thinks about what you are doing.

Not only does it make everything easier, but once we stop and see that it doesn't matter what they think, we find that
what they really think ISN'T REALLY so bad after all!

I'm sure anyone would agree.

And what if you find that some ARE against you?

Well, if you don't really care about what they think anyway, you'll find it easy to keep the relationships friendly with the ones who matter.
(And even easier to throw out the B!tchy ones who you woulnd't want to be around anyway!)

splinter, i can SO see where you're coming from, Freshmen are 90% insecure kids who have a ton of work to do. the other 10% are kids who have found their place and are moving down whatever path that is.

It seems like an experience you want to take mizter, and I think it would be worth it.
You wont lose any true friends out of it, and you'll only end up with an experience that you will always be thankful for, or one to sit back and laugh about with your friends. =p
Seriously, just go for it.
It will be fun, and not to mention easy! Any freshie would jump for an opportunity to date a senior, its just up to her how she goes about it and what kind of tests she throws in.

[splinterkb]

I'm not telling him to date the senior instead. I'm just saying, I have my standards set at about 1 year younger, because I know that younger girls are way easier to hook up with, because they're kind of intimidated by you since you're older, and thats hot to them. You actually have to work for someone your same age and maturity. Have you ever noticed how much more work it takes to hook up with someone your same age compared to someone a lot younger? They're mostly insecure, and don't know what to do with themselves. When they do that, they base the entire relationship on attraction, and not other qualities. This makes it very unstable, and also makes it easy for her to get "confused" later on. You gotta think about it man. Do you remember how much you changed from the age of 14 to the age of 17 or 18? It's a big difference, not to mention a complete different mind set, and what you're looking for in life. Just my 2 cents.