I was at the bar with two co-workers (one male, one female). During the course of the conversation, the female asked about one the people at work (interested) and the other guy I was with proceeded to diss him really bad (behind his back). He told her of how much he makes, how he punked him out once, and whatnot. The girl was eating this up, totally absorbed and amused.

I was shocked and tried to change the subject, but she wanted to hear more.

I thought what he said was fukked up and a sign of insecurity, but the girl was laughing her ass off at the expense of this other guy.

Now my question is this: Does being an AMOG include dissing your competition behind their backs? Do most women get attracted to that sort of nonsense?

Originally posted by AmIAFC
Now my question is this: Does being an AMOG include dissing your competition behind their backs? Do most women get attracted to that sort of nonsense?

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Dissing a guy behind his back is what a woman will do. Its a coward way of getting rid of the competition. The guy cannot defend himself and your coworker doesn't have the balls to tell him that in his face.

Women are attracted to actions. If she already likes that guy, dissing him would not do much. She will want to see it for herself by dating the guy.

Make yourself the best that you can be and forget about competition because you are not focusing your attention on one girl but many.

DjDamage

Don't you get why girls always go to the bathrooms in group and watch soap operas? They eat up gossip/drama like a fat homeless person at a one dollar all you can eat buffet! For many girls (I'll say many because obvously it's not ALL of them) catching wind of scandalouse information makes them drool. Be it info about a man or a woman, having that knowledge makes them feel like them feel more secure about their environment because they've gotten access to privledge information.

Don't get me wrong there's a fair share of guys who feel the same way...many of them gay. In any event you do what you want to in terms of bad mouthing people. If you feel it's justified then do it. If you think it's "bad karma" then don't, it really makes no difference. There's still a good chance she'll hook up with the other guy (the one who was gettin bad mouthed) any way if indeed she was interested. People don't always believe what they hear and more often then not behave illogically when it comes to office romance.

There is nothing wrong with dissing a guy behind his back especially to a girl. There's no code out there. Its the law of the jungle and the best man usually wins.