(I've read the bible, i've cold approached at least 40 women in the past year, and i know the standard advice for one-itis just to move on, but she's not exactly my one-itis because i do hit on other girls. Now that, that is cleared up ....)


-Met this gorgeous redhead a year ago, we were both in the same night class.

-We'd talk for 15 or 20 minutes after every class

-We shared a long kiss before the class ended.

-She told me she didn't want to lead me on beacuse she was still interested in her exboyfriend after that kiss. I told her that i wasn't interested in being just friends... followed by me deciding that if i could use the facade of friendship against her that it would be easier to game her anyway. So i told her I decided that her and i would be just friends.

-We never did go out on a date, and i eventually forgot about her.
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-She's back into my life and i see her a few times a week in the school library.

-I either make her nervous or she wants nothing to do with me based on how she pretends im not around until I open up a conversation with her.

-Over instant messanger she was desperately trying to get me to say that she isn't a "ditz" because a year ago i called her that playfully and it struck a nerve hehe.

-She told me last year towards the end of knowing me i grew 'cold' to her which is entirely untrue because she was the one that grew cold to me ... but whatever ill ignore that.

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Basicly she never did give me a whole lot of attention, but i still lust for her.

Let's say that i wanted to put a bit of effort into making her warm up to me more than she ever did in the past ....

How do I go about it?

Okay i think what I'm really asking here:

is this one of the rare cases where you throw out a couple of compliments towards the girls way ? (she apparently thinks i acted cold to her months ago)

should i try to play the "lets just be friends" card on her again and see if she'll hang out with me?

would kino help in this situation to make her think more kindly of me ?

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Another interesting note is that she smiles everytime i say her full name (First and last) .... its a smile as shes flattered that i remember it all after a year.

Meh and for everybody that gives me the "get over your one-itis, forget about her and go hit on other women" ... BAH to you hehe. I'm activly sarging, this girl is just on my mind a lot recently since she came back into my life.

Stop overanalyzing.

Pretend that you've recently met her and ask her out. No need to dwell over things in the past.

If she is interested, she'll take up on your offer. If not, oh well, there are a couple of billion chicks out there.