let me now this -there this girl in my class-seens been in several of my classess right -very quiet, loner , hardly see her talking with anyone-talked to her a couple of x's-shes quiet but responsive right. seems shes the kind thats very gung ho about school and not very into making freinds. kind of liked this girl asked her out-since shes a loner type similar to me-also quiet. well she said NO-maybe next time right- if u guys read my prior posts u would now, what i am talking about. i was so surprised this girl would make a big deal about a guy askin her out-since i thought she would be the down to earth, quiet, nice type -thats what i saw, but NO hey she had to tell everyone about it-and made me look like a fool-by tellin everyone-i got funny looks and smiles from every on campus.

how does a loner , quiet, very by herself type of girl ever have 8freinds.
i find her on freindster and she has 8 freinds all from HS-most of em seem to be the pary type very unlike her type. , how does a girl who so quiet-never ot hardly talk to ppl in college be able to have 8 freinds in HS? i'm more talktive than her and i don't have 8 freinds-lol. like 1 or 2
It also said she was in a relationship-do u think shes really in a relationship ,or just mark it as in a relatiionship-to avoid guys e mailing her and gaining unwanted male attention and is really single. she has no guy pics of her and her guy, and has 2 guy freinds and they are marked in as single-one east indian guy and the other chinese-

I was in a situation like this...but I think I"m missing the question pertaining to getting her?

I read somewhere that an average shy girl will have very little problems making friends,having boyfriends/sex life and getting married.

where as an average shy guy will have problems with all three. just something to think about.

I found the article by going to wikipedia and putting in love shy. At the bottom are links to a book someone wrote about love-shy males. Its available free online in pdf format. church

agree with the above, shy girls have no problems pulling guys in. a lot of guys like shy girls, (I do), especially if they happen to also be attractive. It's almost like a side hobby of mine tracking down shy girls.

don't be surprised that she's got friends, loud crazy party girls also need quiet friends... and don't be surprised if she's got a little legion of AFC followers... just do your thing man, you could be the one she needs.