So, here I sit at my (read: the family's) computor thinking about how great this site is and what a blessing it has been. I've moved from being an AFC to finally having a 'A' game to bring. Not just my C Minus game. I'm doing the boot camp and my job helps me with meeting new people (I'm a host at a resteraunt).

Time for a short bio...a peek into my mind, if you will...:

I've been in love twice (at 19!!) and both times have turned to utter poopy. I live at home with no ride and two parents with whom I don't get along. I love my job and it pays well (I think). I ahve places to stay but my balls aren't big enough to walk out on my family just yet. I'm getting there (my mom just tried to ground me ) but no just yet. I'll leave the boring details for anyone who really wants to know. Ask and ye shall receive, friends.

I've been visiting this site for months now and been picking up tips, but I've never posted. I've tried to handle things with the ladies on my own, but I figure it's time to call in the cavalry, so to speak.

Good to be here, thanks for the welcome.

P.S.: I am proof that guitar gets you chicks. I just don't know where to go from there.

It's your first time... come here baby... everythings going to be just fine...



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just playing... i had to do that.


Anyway, you haven't been in love. Your'e 19. You've been in LIKE... You've probaby been in CARE... you haven't been in love.

I'm 22 and I have long relationships, and I tell them to their faces that I dont love them, because I wouldn't give my life for a girl I am sleeping with... it takes alot more than a couple of nights of holding hands and making out to be in love.

If you want to move out, move out... LIfe is about taking risks... a Man is a male that isn't afraid to be uncofortable in life.. If you want to leave, leave.

welcome

welcome friend. Hope you find the advice that gets you over that bump in the road. speaking of road you might want to get yourself a set of wheeles which should mesh nicely with the gutar. Im a muscle/sportscar kinda guy so my choice right now is a 2001 lazer red mustang gt coup.. it might look stock but why would i need 315 sized (expensive ) rubber on a deep dish rim in the back 2 The few girls that have gotten rides just love the rush or are completely freaked lol. Though i dont use the car to pick up chicks it helps make the date a bit more fun enroute. (still no tickets and it is my first car):woo:

Originally posted by backbreaker


Anyway, you haven't been in love. Your'e 19. You've been in LIKE... You've probaby been in CARE... you haven't been in love.

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How on earth can you make such a statement? What do you know about his emotional state towards these 2 girls? People are different, and just because you haven't been in love doesn't mean that he hasn't. He is not giving information about these relationsships, at least none to back up your comment..

So keep that stuff to yourself...

19 is too young to be in love.... just like 19 is too you to be married...


It's not that it's not possible.. it's just extremely, extremely highly unlikly.

Most Grown people don't know what love is, let alone a kid straight out of high school

That's not a flame, that's the truth... kNow how many time times people use the word love?

LIke if you are in a relationship, it's "the thing to do"... you feel obligated to do it, and then you actually start convencing yourself that you ARE in love, but how can you love someone that doesnt' love you back in the first place? tha's not LOVE, that's LUST.

I LOVE my little sister... I know she LOVES her big brother.

If I LOVE a girl, and she doesn't LOVE me, that's not LOVE... Love is a 2 way street.


If the 2 girls LOVED him he wouldnt' be single now, it's that plain and simple.

Like I said, that is the farthest thing from a flame to the kid.. he came to the site, and h is trying to better himslef, I can't knock him for wha the doesn't understand, but he is TRYING to understand.

YOu know how many times I have seen guys tell some of my female friends after she gives them a tad bit of attentoin how they are in"love"

Thanks for the Welcome

backbreaker, IM0001, \O/, I appreciate it.

Just to make matters clear, with the first girl, it really was love. It's a tough story and a very strange situation, but it was love. Most assuredly. The second time, it could've been love, it could not have been. But the second one drove me to this site and that's all that matters about that. So in a sense, much thanks is due to the byotch.

I may be a romantic, in fact I know I am. Maybe my DJ training will prove that to be a very bad idea, but as for now that's what I am. Though you are right, backbreaker. I did come here to better myself, so I won't claim to be anything except an eager student. Like I said, I'm going through the boot camp and am at week #1, so I have a way to go. But I'm also a writer. I've been writing for years upon years and have a very keen understanding of the human psyche. So, the first one was love, the second, well, was luck I guess. We had a huge fight and I haven't spoken to her since June, best friends for three years and I haven't spoken to since June. Perhaps I should've started posting then...hmm... Just to clear more air, the fight was about us being a couple. Damn my AFC days! DAMN YOU, I SAY!!!

I don't know how to add quotes, but BB, when you say that 19 is too young to be in love, that's what the girl said. That strikes me as funny.

Congrats, backbreaker. You've made my sig. (as soon as I figure out how to change it) Give yourself a pat on the back.

I will be adding the quote: "A man is a male that isn't afraid to be uncomfortable in life..." with your permission, of course...

you're welcome..

To change the Sig, go to the User CP and then to Profile

two parents with whom I don't get along.

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Then make it work - unless of course they are abusive towards you.

Abusive? No. D icks? Yes. Stubborn? You bet. But not abusive.

My father is an alcoholic, so we've never gotten along. He *literally* threw me out one night. We had a very big fight where he threatened violence but I called him on his bluff, and he threw me out. Picked me up and placed me outside the house.

My mom's sister, my aunt, just died and she's having an unaturally hard time dealing with it. So I want to be sensitive to her plight, but also, I want her to realize I'm 19 and grounding me is pretty frickin' ridiculous. We're going to sit down and talk Sunday night, we can't talk without arguing the past month or so, so let's hope that works...

BUT, her "grounding" me is keeping me from pretty important stuff tomorrow. I'm making a movie (and doing a re-write of the script in addition to my role) and we had a pre-prod. meeting tomorrow. We're indie, so it can be rescheduled without costing money, but it may cost me my job. Also, One of my best friends for about five years has (or had) a really cool heavy metal band. I don't like heavy metal as a rule, but these guys are the shiznit. It's there last show tomorrow night and I promised I'd be there. He promised he'd get me laid. Of course, there's a girl involved...

Any ideas on what case sensitive stuff I can say between now and when I get off work tomorrow? Please? I'm kinda losing my mind, but I know that others have it way worse...

any problems like that, just understand, it's their house, and as much as you don't like them, it's their parents rules.

If you don't like... move.. simple as that... Theyd on't hve to explain **** to you, you don't pay rent, bills, or anything... you get no say so on what goes on , you do what you are told.

Hmm...

Could be...

Personally, I think that that's complete BS. "Nope. No, sir, I don't like it." (10 points for anyone who can guess what that's from).

I'm going to tell her tomorrow that I'm going to stay at a friend's house for a few days (not inviting myself, mind you, he offered). She wants to talk on Sunday, fine we'll talk on Sunday. I just won't see her 'til then. Ballsy, maybe foolhearty, I know. But it (in my humble opinion) needs to be done. I'll let you all know (if anybody really cares) what happens...I'm off to watch "Squidbillies" and "12 Oz. Mouse". Dammit, I love [adultswim].

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