I have another question here guys, am Im confused or getting mixed signals. My ljbf girl friend told me about 5 years ago that she knew I had a crush on her in college but wasnt mutually attrcted beyond friendship at that time. (key word).


Now since that time, we have actually become very close friends even though we havent actually been in physical contact since college. I assumed that I am stuck in the ljbf zone and thats it.

Now college has been quite a while back for us. 1989 to be exact. Now at this point, 99.999999 percent of anyone reading this would say NEXT.. Buuuuuuttttt I have a question.

She works as an amature model. Here just a month ago out of the bluesky, she sends me a picture (A Very seductive picture of her in a bakini with a police officers uniform "partially" on. )

If she sees me as just a friend. why would she have sent a provoctive picture like that? I personally would not send a girl a half nude picture if I wasnt mutually interested. (but thats just me) What do you think?

Perfect opportunity to work the game. Here is what you do. Tease her. Say "That picture is sexy, are you trying to seduce me here?" Let me know her response. Keep playing with her. If she plays along and say yup, then say "You'll have to do better than that, let's see the nudes."

But I must warn you that most exs contact their ex a long time later to see if he still has feelings not necessarily mean to get back together. Women are collector of hearts. And they feel good to know they still have your heart captured.

Flirt and Tease. The key to returning mixed signals. Just Flirt like hell and you'll go far.

she's just teasing you

Now since that time, we have actually become very close friends even though we havent actually been in physical contact since college.

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So you've been good friends for almost 15 years but you haven't met in 15 years? Or for you a physical contact means sex?

She probably just wants MORE attention anyway. If she was interested in more than being friends you would have known it in so many other ways.

There might be a 0.01% chance that she is testing you to see if you're gonna start salivating over her and begging for sex. If this is the case, don't act like you "loved, just loved her perfect wonderful picture," and "could you pretty please see a bit more of her." Say "nice pic" if the subject comes up and move on. And especially don't give her more attention than usual.

At best, you could maybe tease her about it. Something like "Gee, do you send this kind of pics to every guy you know. I didn't think you were THAT kind of girl. How much?"

If it was a test, she'll make her intentions clear again, don't worry about it.

I would tell her that her ass looks fat, and that she has a highly noticable pube-bulge showing through her bikini bottom. Then I would offer to refer her photo to this web-site you know that will pay her handsomely to jerk-off farm animals and take facials on camera. But that's just what I would do...

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I would tell her that her ass looks fat, and that she has a highly noticable pube-bulge showing through her bikini bottom. Then I would offer to refer her photo to this web-site you know that will pay her handsomely to jerk-off farm animals and take facials on camera. But that's just what I would do...

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Hi Suzie,

Thanks for the slutty picture, and before you start begging me for sex, the answer is no.

I like the responses mentioned, but the fact is probably...

Models get off on everyone telling them how attractive they are. They expect it. It is the frame upon which their self-esteem rests.

The suggestions made by the other members are great, FOR STARTERS.

Quite a few of the dating coaches state that once you are in "the friend zone", then you might as well give up any hopes of landing the girl sexually.

The woman has already catalogued you in her mind. It is DAM HARD to get her to see you in a different light. To build interest, interest needs to exist in the first place.

I believe it is possible, but probably MUCH more work than is practical for most men with other responsibilities to do.

If your game is good, focus on a NEW girls, play your cards right, and enjoy yourself. Build SOCIAL PROOF. When your LJBF lady finds out, she might begin to wonder what she has been missing out on, and that will exponentially increase the chances that she will come to YOU.

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Just so everyone knows. Im not totally obsessed with her. I actually lost contact with her for a year or so. (too much other things going on in my life). I just so happened was able to get her email address from her mother last fall and we hve been in strong contact since. I have been on several dates since college. Some of them were hotter then her. I guess the biggest reason I am still interested in her is she befriended me my freshmen year in collge. I was terribly shy back then. 400 lbs and had no self esteem. She has seen several pics of me since then and is aware that I have lost alot of weight. (Dropped 174lbs to be exact). We confide with each other whenever we have problems. Its kind of a strange friendship indeed since we havent been out wth each other since our college days. But strangly enough , I know more about her then most of the women I have dated. (of course, that isnt saying alot. I have been out with some realy crackpots....LOL). I guess I am saying that I keep the pilot light on for hopes in the back of my head that we do hook up. But I dont dream about it.

Just move on with your life.

The problem here is that you are remaining friends with a woman that you had a romantic interest in... nothing good came come from that.