Through hours of pondering over the correct male mind set for living to the maxium enjoyment of life I came to this personal and rather broad conclusion.
The task of a male human in life and almost all humans is to succeed and controll in thier environment, ovious, but still something that has to be realised.
Succeeding, is being able to use every opportunity no matter how big or small to its maxium profitable possibility, it could be making the most of your time waiting for a bus, or cutting your losses on the horses or quitting the ****ty repetitive job to goto college and follow your passions.
This for me is using every "tool" you have as a human to devise a way of doing this. And this could be put down to this mindset that I have cultivated in myself and realised that i was lacking in my nice guy days, beacuse back then I did really live in a blanket of computer games, drugs and masturbation.
The Blanket was lifted when I grew up and realised that..
The world, nature, your surrondings are your enemy, not in a literal sense, but in the sense that, you are the person on the inside and EVERYTHING else is harsh and unforgiving and needs harnessing to your needs, desires and educational wants. How you achive this is up to you, researching, exploring, devising systems and educating/improving yourself
"as you think you shal become"
to carve your surroundings into what you want them to be.
I find the metaphor of a bramble bush (hard thorny bush) to be a good for explainging this.
Your world is a huge bramble bush full of sharp thorns and sweet fruits, your are given your intelligence, phisical body and accumulated experiance (both from others and you) to find these's fruits (the pleasures in life).
Now you've got to carve a way thought this bush however you can,
the alpha male or dj would say
"ok lets check my tools, plot a plan and start cutting without hesitation or fear of what lerks and let me take what I want."
Though this he would gain experiance, stop along the way to sharpen his tools (improve himself and contemplate) and then, he would carry on with the atitutude...
"This **** will one day kill me, im gonna make the most of every opportunity"
This then helps him stare away fear, climb the vines, becomes stronger, eat more fruit and with this he tries harder and gets better. And for this, and his integrity, would gain respect, get pvssy galore and become the "alpha male"
now the nice little wuss would say
"geez there's alot of bramble here, im gonna stay here so i dont get pricked and just pick the fruit which grows around me, its soo much easier"
Female thinking is much the same but she thinks a man will come and save her (of course not all women are like this), but for the wussy male it is letting his environment controll him, his desires and dreams
Because of this he never gains experiance to handle it all better, he stays stagnent in life never improving, the fruit that grows is ugly and deformed, bored of the taste he grows sickly and weak from the same thing, the people around him bully, take advantage and he becomes the beta male.
And so he lives out his miserable existance, consumed in his sorrow, self denial and pitty.
Unless he starts to carve his world around him, realise that he is on the inside and the world (on the outside) wont help, he will never experiance the true pleasure it can be, to be, a human being.
And through this system the women get to see who are the hardest, smartest, bravest and most able males and choose thier partner accordingly.
This is what it should naturally be like for humans.
Now today, however, I found out for me that, we are suck in an age that is alien. We get messages from our mothers, schools and t.v's which conflicts with what we naturally should do, for many people the confusion warps them (makes nice guys) and often leaves them permently scared.
The women also suffer, thier are no longer leaders, heros or men who succeed though thier smarts, wills and gain respect though thier integrity and hardwork. Today to become successful we are hard pushed be disloyal, dishonest, rebels, sacrafice almost what seperates us from the animals, our naturally good spiritual nature, to feel success.
It is a sad story that though all our material accoplishments, as people we are almost moving backwards, to a time where extream selfish nature as a person, was the best chance of carrying on your genes and attaining a inner feeling of success and accomplishment.
This is almost underpinned in the statment in fight club by Tyler
"Our fathers were our models for god, if our fathers bailed what does that tell you about god?"
This, to me, means that our fathers, (the male leaders) who where held in such high regard by thier people that though myth and folk tail, could come to represent a being beyond human, have now become corrupt and weak. Now what does that say about us as loving natural spirtual beings?
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Thanks for reading.
"It is a matter of life and death, a road either to safety or to ruin. Hence it is a subject of inquiry which can on no account be neglected." Art of war
The task of a male human in life and almost all humans is to succeed and controll in thier environment, ovious, but still something that has to be realised.
Succeeding, is being able to use every opportunity no matter how big or small to its maxium profitable possibility, it could be making the most of your time waiting for a bus, or cutting your losses on the horses or quitting the ****ty repetitive job to goto college and follow your passions.
This for me is using every "tool" you have as a human to devise a way of doing this. And this could be put down to this mindset that I have cultivated in myself and realised that i was lacking in my nice guy days, beacuse back then I did really live in a blanket of computer games, drugs and masturbation.
The Blanket was lifted when I grew up and realised that..
The world, nature, your surrondings are your enemy, not in a literal sense, but in the sense that, you are the person on the inside and EVERYTHING else is harsh and unforgiving and needs harnessing to your needs, desires and educational wants. How you achive this is up to you, researching, exploring, devising systems and educating/improving yourself
"as you think you shal become"
to carve your surroundings into what you want them to be.
I find the metaphor of a bramble bush (hard thorny bush) to be a good for explainging this.
Your world is a huge bramble bush full of sharp thorns and sweet fruits, your are given your intelligence, phisical body and accumulated experiance (both from others and you) to find these's fruits (the pleasures in life).
Now you've got to carve a way thought this bush however you can,
the alpha male or dj would say
"ok lets check my tools, plot a plan and start cutting without hesitation or fear of what lerks and let me take what I want."
Though this he would gain experiance, stop along the way to sharpen his tools (improve himself and contemplate) and then, he would carry on with the atitutude...
"This **** will one day kill me, im gonna make the most of every opportunity"
This then helps him stare away fear, climb the vines, becomes stronger, eat more fruit and with this he tries harder and gets better. And for this, and his integrity, would gain respect, get pvssy galore and become the "alpha male"
now the nice little wuss would say
"geez there's alot of bramble here, im gonna stay here so i dont get pricked and just pick the fruit which grows around me, its soo much easier"
Female thinking is much the same but she thinks a man will come and save her (of course not all women are like this), but for the wussy male it is letting his environment controll him, his desires and dreams
Because of this he never gains experiance to handle it all better, he stays stagnent in life never improving, the fruit that grows is ugly and deformed, bored of the taste he grows sickly and weak from the same thing, the people around him bully, take advantage and he becomes the beta male.
And so he lives out his miserable existance, consumed in his sorrow, self denial and pitty.
Unless he starts to carve his world around him, realise that he is on the inside and the world (on the outside) wont help, he will never experiance the true pleasure it can be, to be, a human being.
And through this system the women get to see who are the hardest, smartest, bravest and most able males and choose thier partner accordingly.
This is what it should naturally be like for humans.
Now today, however, I found out for me that, we are suck in an age that is alien. We get messages from our mothers, schools and t.v's which conflicts with what we naturally should do, for many people the confusion warps them (makes nice guys) and often leaves them permently scared.
The women also suffer, thier are no longer leaders, heros or men who succeed though thier smarts, wills and gain respect though thier integrity and hardwork. Today to become successful we are hard pushed be disloyal, dishonest, rebels, sacrafice almost what seperates us from the animals, our naturally good spiritual nature, to feel success.
It is a sad story that though all our material accoplishments, as people we are almost moving backwards, to a time where extream selfish nature as a person, was the best chance of carrying on your genes and attaining a inner feeling of success and accomplishment.
This is almost underpinned in the statment in fight club by Tyler
"Our fathers were our models for god, if our fathers bailed what does that tell you about god?"
This, to me, means that our fathers, (the male leaders) who where held in such high regard by thier people that though myth and folk tail, could come to represent a being beyond human, have now become corrupt and weak. Now what does that say about us as loving natural spirtual beings?
Please give feed back.
Thanks for reading.
"It is a matter of life and death, a road either to safety or to ruin. Hence it is a subject of inquiry which can on no account be neglected." Art of war
