What can I learn from Sosuave?

B-Lemond · Sep 25, 2005

It's been a few months since I've been on this forum. For some reason, I haven't learned ANYTHING. Everything I learned was from sosuave.com and the DJ newsletters. I've been reading posts and what not but nothing is really learned from sosuave.net. Sosuave.net, and I just come to realize, is nothing but a waste of time where nothing is learned.

What can I learn from Sosuave.net?

GropeDope · Sep 25, 2005

See that link at the top that says The DJ Bible?

Aside from that...I think coming on here keeps you focused on your goals. At least thats what it does for me.

a difficult guy · Sep 25, 2005

strange.

Maybe because there areso many different techniques and opinions, and lots of them are contradictory and you get confused.

B-Lemond · Sep 25, 2005

^ 2x
WOW! Why don't you tell me something I don't know? The DJ Bible doesn't say anything new. I already know the info. It's basically everything from the main site told in someone else's words.

change · Sep 25, 2005

nobodys making you post here. Stop wasting your time complaining and go meet some girls.

syncmaster · Sep 25, 2005

Originally posted by change
nobodys making you post here. Stop wasting your time complaining and go meet some girls.

What the ****'s your problem? He's asking for help. Don't tear into him like that.

I'd take a look at some of the older posts. A lot of the new stuff is basically watered down. Here is a link to one of the original copies of the bible. It's a LOT better than the one up now.

http://sosuave.com/bible/bible.htm

The best advice I can give is try what you read here and if it doesn't work go onto the next thing (make an honest effort though). You won't learn anything from not trying... lol it's a "hands on" course.

Best of luck.

DJohnson · Sep 25, 2005

Make no mistake, 99% of what you learn will be intuitive knowledge that can not be putinto words on the internet really. What forums like this are best for is motivation, perhaps offering advice and helping people think outside the box, or outside the matrix in this case.

Also, you can gain by teaching others. Sometimes I offer advice that has helped me in the past, someone will use it, and it works for them and not only that they learn something that I didn't even consider before hand.

So forums have value, but they are NOTHING compared to being in the field relating to women.

I read a book along time ago, called the 4th way. It is a book about self actualization. One of the main ideas is that the words used to teach something can mean nothing to some people and EVERYTHING to others. And also that the words can mean different things at different points in one peron's life.

So perhaps rereading things on here after a certain amount of time and sitance will shed new light on old passages.

Regards,

S-lemond · Oct 22, 2005

bluelemond quit being a *****...lol im jk man! u do have a point

BigFoot · Oct 22, 2005

I'd have to agree with you, it's difficult
to get good advice here because it's inconsistent and noone can see a poster's situation with great clarity. It helps to get support from other people though.
The secret I think is that there that is no single method or approach that works (as the site supporters would have you believe) because women are people and people can be quite different and situations quite complex.

dirtyvibe · Oct 22, 2005

holy crap. ive been here for nearly a year and i didnt even know sosuave.com existed!

h2o · Oct 22, 2005

Re: Re: What can I learn from Sosuave?

Originally posted by 007~JC
You will continue to learn nothing until you apply what this site has. Get in the field now.

exactly. 80% experience, 20% reading.

i.e., take the time you spend on this site, reading/posting, multiply that by 4, and that is at least how much time you need to be out, getting experience.

the most learning is done in the field. if you don't fail, you'll never truly succeed.

now, go out there and fail, get rejected, and then you will truly learn!

one tip...if you think you have the balls, or want to test them, make an approach journal...you will learn a whole lot from it. try attempting 100 or so approaches in a few months...i guarantee you will learn from that.

make some goals...what do you want out of this site? where do you want to be, what kind of women do you want to lay, etc...then make a plan to achieve that.

good luck

DJHoolahoop · Oct 23, 2005

all the bible is, is experience. Guys mentioning excerpts from what worked for them. Just because it worked for them, doesn't mean it'll work for everyone. But it DOES teach an important lesson, that you can read about experiences and theories all you like, but they'll all be wrong until you prove them right.

Obviously if we knew we were doing something wrong, we would fix it. If our brains new how to do it right, well then we wouldn't be doing it wrong anymore now would we? Only we don't know how to do it right until we do it over and over again, until we get it right. That's what you can learn from SoSuave, learn what you can and keep trying until you get it right. Each failure is only one step closer to success.

MixMaxster · Oct 23, 2005

Originally posted by Sicarius
460 posts and you havent learned anything?

probably like others on the forum who just read the stuff and make posts like they know what they're talking about.

S-lemond · Oct 23, 2005

Originally posted by MixMaxster
probably like others on the forum who just read the stuff and make posts like they know what they're talking about.

have you ever read one of this guys post or threads....trust me, he does know what hes talking about! and yea 460...and now relizing what has he learned in that time?

syncmaster · Oct 23, 2005

The more time you spend in the field the field getting rejected & doing sets the better you'll get. I like the idea of a pu journal. That way you can analize what you did wrong. Also, get a wingman and analize the pickup. Have him watch you and go over it afterward.

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

What can I learn from Sosuave?

B-Lemond

Master Don Juan

GropeDope

Banned

a difficult guy

Don Juan

B-Lemond

Master Don Juan

change

Don Juan

syncmaster

Master Don Juan

DJohnson

Don Juan

S-lemond

Master Don Juan

BigFoot

Don Juan

dirtyvibe

Senior Don Juan

h2o

Banned

DJHoolahoop

Senior Don Juan

MixMaxster

Don Juan

S-lemond

Master Don Juan

syncmaster

Master Don Juan