“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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tell me if this is right, or if i'm just gonna come across gay

imleashedup

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a girl tells me to come slide down this giant hill, so i go and its 3 girls and one other guy and the 3 girls are down at the bottom of the hill mud fighting and the guy is just standing there so i slide down and start mud fighting mainly with the girls that aren't the "mark". but anyways during all of this and the showering everybody off in the hose i was mainly flirting with everybody else even my "competition" aka the other guy. but afterwards i thought that flirting with the other guy might have made me look gay. it wasn't any "hey boy you look sexy ****", it was just like ****y funny stuff and i sprayed him down with the water hose too.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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chill out

Dude, just chill out

If you are secure enough in your sexuality to joke around with a guy, thats great stuff.
 

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There's this guy I know who is totally straight but he acts very very gay. He talks about fashion a lot and jokingly flirts with guys... dresses really nice/clean... you would totally wonder about his sexual orientation if you met him randomly (I know I did at first)... but he seriously gets any girl he wants. Be comfortable with who you are and don't worry about what others think.
 
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