Originally posted by Bradshaw
HERE IS MY THEORY: Some of you are severe KBJ's. You can't even handle the fear of walking up to a cashier and paying for a book that has the line "Pick Up Artist" in the title. "Oh dear, I hope she doesn't snicker at me. My life would be over! I can't handle that! wah!"
You get nervous at the thought of even doing this. You decide not to get the book. (Don't say it is the money because I bet a lot of you would puss-out from getting this book at the library)
You don't want to admit to others that this is how chicken sh1t you are. Fvck, I'll bet your even trying to convince yourselves. Which is why you tell us (and yourselves) "oh, I don't need that book - I am beyond that crap."
B.S.
If you are beyond learning, wtf are you doing on this site?
Again, exactly. Most people criticizing the book or getting it, are afraid to actually be seen with it or anything that will be perceived by others as them needing help. I have a female friend, who I will mention below, who has a male co-worker who won't admit he needs help, so he'll tell everyone that he's doing research.
When you have reached the point where you are not affected by walking up to the cashier with any book, or when you don't have to make posts that are titled "My girl discovered this website, what should I do?", etc. then that is the time when you really can say that it is ok to not learn anymore. Ironically, when you reach that point, you will realize that there is always something to learn, regardless of how many seduction systems you want to buy.
I have several of the programs out there, and wouldn't be embarrased to be "caught" by any woman I see. In fact, one of the girls who I was in bed with saw my tv screen right after I accidentally touched the remote control, and it read "Double Your Dating Mastery Program", with a picture of Mystery on half the screen, and said "what is that?", I calmly told her what it was and how I benefit from learning, etc.
Next day she calls and leaves a message "I know it is not our style, but I just wanted to tell you I had a great time last nite and hope we can do it again soon. Please call me when you get a chance."
Another lady I dated is so into me that I play her some of my dvd's, and cd's that I have. She went and bought "The Game", and enjoyed it more because she was familiar with some of the characters. And get this, she is gonna "get us" the Mystery DVD program.
When you handle all your insecurities and live in your own universe, women will adapt to you, period. If you learn the techniques, lines, methods, yet haven't worked on your inner game, they will smell it a mile away, and you will feel the need to "hide" the fact that you are "a looser who has to learn pick up techniques from books."
