Mostly just funny comments, i will go through a certain point where i might make fun of the girl but genraly i do not too much.
There you go. You're a good joke teller. You're not using your humor to raise a woman's attraction. If you can begin directing your humor toward her small imperfections (such as smeared makeup, spitting when she talks, how impatient she is, how she talks too fast etc etc) you will make her emotions go up and down. This is what women want. This is what will draw her to you.
The girl that siad every 1 likes me as a freind but im not boy freind matireal said that i should stop saying offensive jokes because girls dont like them.
Stop telling jokes. Make the woman part of a joke. Mix some kino in with it, and you've got dynamite. Pat her on the head after she says something and say the following as if you're talking to a cute baby, "You're so cute when you're upset / happy / drunk!" You can also lightly tug on her cheek when you say this.
Poke her for no reason. She'll poke back. You'll get into a poking war, and possibly a tickle war.
Crumple your beer labels into little balls and throw them at her. She'll throw them back.
In summary, have fun with them. Act like a little kid in a classroom, but make sure you mix some kino in there somewhere.
It wasnt really offensive just kind of like a neg hit or somthing,
Most people don't understand Neg-Hits or how to use them. They're to take a woman off the pedestal they've put themselves on. It's an insult disguised as a compliment:
"Hey, you smell good... are you wearing Speed Stik?"
just like a girl says somthing and i might take a pick at what she said. I notice any one else thats there tends to laugh but not her.
This may be one place you're going wrong. If your comment just pisses her off, you've insulted her. If her jaw drops open, you've may have used a neg-hit. If she puts on an angry attitude but is smiling, you're using ****y/funny.
Then theres sometimes when i might just be 'mean' jokingly to the girl.
This is what you want. Shock the hell out of her, but make her smile or laugh. They get an emotional rollercoaster ride out of this, and they love it.
