My 1st ever post in the tips section.

Here goes:

Let's say you have a girlfriend and her interest level seems to suddenly drop one day. Sounds familiar? This seems to always happen, no matter who you are and no matter who the girl is and how high her IL was initially.

Many people on these boards jump to the conclusion that if this happens, then the girl must be cheating and they believe that the termination of the relationship is the next thing to do. NEXT!!!

The females' behavior (as well as their apparent interest level) is composed essentially of continuous ups and downs. So YES, they will go down and give you the impression that they aren't into you anymore, but the mistake that most men seem to make is that they assume that the woman is mad AT THEM or is LESS INTO THEM. In most cases, that's WRONG!!!

My advice is to make your woman talk. Talk about whatever is bothering her. You may be surprised to find out that what is bringing her down isn't you or something you've done, but some other IRRELEVANT shyt that happened in her life.

So, what if you would have NEXT'ed her?? Due to her DOWN state, she would have been pissed off and accepted the break-up, giving you the impression that she really was NOT into you. Again, just an impression.

Don't become an AFC when your woman shows signs that she may not be that much into you. Her problems may not even be related to you. Stay strong and confident and don't assume that YOU did something wrong.

Blaming yourself before even talking to her will make you seem very AFC and could make your woman be less interested in you simply because of your distorted impression of reality.

Being confident that she is into you no matter what will prolounge your relationships and prevent you from next-ing stupidly and blindly, hence missing out in the long run...

Thanks for reading.

AD has corrupted you all!!!!!

whatever happened to making the ho say no?

NEXTing is for the girls you can't stand to be around...

there are girls taht feel as though their lives are in the dumps atm and and I've met many a woman who have been in that situation. Who here came onto this site sparkling and believing they could get any girl? Not too many would search for this type of site if not for that mindset.

So, whats to say that a woman always has to have the mindset of I'm going to go out there and be a tease be all that every man wants today? Not many girls... there are the precious few, but they're not always in the mood.

Ever go out with a woman and she's down in the dumps and acts *****y all day like she's

on her period(no way I'd never LTR a girl who EVER has a period)
lost her job(unheard of, a girl MUST keep her job no matter how much of an ass her previous boss is)
lost a family or friend(more reasons than death to lose a friend ya know)
any other random reason to be angry...

There are people that can laugh and have fun with ything, but thats not always a sign of somebody you want to be with.

I've met girls who were lesbians, brought them home, and while they were 69'n one of em decides to let it rip, I thought it was just a mistake, than the other girl opens her mouf

There are just so many freaky people out there in the world, you can't NEXT a girl because she says ONE sentence that makes you angry, that shows a genuine lack of character,m depth, and intelligence. You need the healthy argument, you need healthy criticism, you NEED to understand life is a rollercoaster, If you start every relationship off with a rush, there is inevitably going to be a major downer for you along the way.

Don't NEXT the *****, make the ho say no!!!

i dunno if i can agree with that. i agree there are down times, but girls confuse the down-times with "losing feelings" or interest and so sometimes they may dump you first bcoz they got bored of u

to handle the situation, as most ppl on this board will say, u need to have the power in the relationship. make her need you

Originally posted by azn_alex
to handle the situation, as most ppl on this board will say, u need to have the power in the relationship. make her need you

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Yes, and that was my point as well. Don't become AFC, because that will drive her away. Have the power in the relationship by staying strong and confident at all times, especially when she seems to doubt you. Most probably she is testing you!