Viper
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What can you guys recommend for attractive clothing? For some reason, I think girls at my school just aren't digging my style. I wear baggy jeans, with a white/black t-shirt that usually has a logo on it.
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Dont say that, because you sound like a retard. Please explain the effects of wearing baggy clothes...Originally posted by Zod
Don't wear baggy clothes, wear clothes that are actually your size.
Be Myself? Hah! Myself is the loser who afraids of what other people think.Originally posted by danrizzy
Read the DJ Bible! It's important to Just Be Yourself (JBY). Don't change your style for someone else. Girls love original and confident people.
I haven't heard about American Eagle or Pac Sun, but I have to say NO for things like abercrombie and hollister.You can't go wrong with American Eagle, Abercrombie, hollister, and Pac Sun.
Dude old shoes are sweet... just throw them in the washer on cold. and put it in the dryer... itll look old.. but cleaner... what color are they?Originally posted by Viper
Cool, I'm down with the tight jeans things, however...
I haven't heard about American Eagle or Pac Sun, but I have to say NO for things like abercrombie and hollister.
Also, I haven't gotten new shoes for a while and my current shoes are very dirty, that may also be a turn off.
same as me... i get comments on how great my style is... from girls, gay guys... its freakin funny.... but its a confidence boosterOriginally posted by 08aisaac
No one looks bad in Abercrombie and Hollister.
You reject the best I have, and you won't get much better.
Why don't you like them. You don't have to dress gay or anything, but it works well enough for anyone. I guess you could get shirts from Hot Topic. I love Hot Topic.
Not everyone looks good in Abercrombie and Hollister, they are designed for tall slim guys.. i went shopping with my friend, hes 6'2 240 the best OT you ever seen. They just dont fit him.. simple as thatOriginally posted by 08aisaac
No one looks bad in Abercrombie and Hollister.
You reject the best I have, and you won't get much better.
Why don't you like them. You don't have to dress gay or anything, but it works well enough for anyone. I guess you could get shirts from Hot Topic. I love Hot Topic.
You should gain some confidence in yourself and stop caring so much as to what other people think. (Fight Club is a great movie to help you develope the I don't give a Sh!t attitude.)Originally posted by Viper
Be Myself? Hah! Myself is the loser who afraids of what other people think.
5'9 185 Pound black guy.Originally posted by 08aisaac
That's true. What do you look like Viper?
Just tell us.
Originally posted by Viper
5'9 185 Pound black guy.
Originally posted by Soniq_red
185lbs are you buff or fat, that changes alot.
Originally posted by Zod
Don't wear baggy clothes, wear clothes that are actually your size.
I don't think you need to have a really nice nice shirt with expensive pants to look good.
What works for me is jeans and a t-shirt real simple, and not that expensive.
f*ck that haha. It really depends on where you live I guess. Most of the guys here where baggy clothes and alot just wear white or black tees. I kind of like wearing plain tees sometimes cus theyre cheap and they look good. It depends on what school you go to and who you are though.Originally posted by YAMON dj
Girls, at least at my school, hate the 'baggy' pants and boxers showing, makes u look like a huge loser.
we just wear a t-shirt with maybe a loose jacket over it with jeans (not baggy) or knee length (maybe a tiny bit longer) shorts.