Scenesters are the people that label other people as:

Jock, Prep, Punk, Emo, etc.

I'm not REALLY like that, but everyone has to communicate in one way... so I'm going to use labels on people.

Well if you read about the Cheerleader who I keep making threads about... She cheers for varsity football... as a co-capt.... we go to different schools... and she wants me to go to her game... and we were formally VERY interested in each other, but we are now less interested, since I am/was AFC. okay

I like to be prep some days, emo/punk some other days. And she (obviously being a cheerleader) is preppy.

The first time we met, she was attracted to me... and i was being my emo/punk side.

pretty much after all the times i met her, i kept dressing in style (real style... not wannabe) and being preppy, which was probably why i was shy.

There's a placebo in my head that the way i dress... when im emo/punk... i shouldnt give a damn how i look -- and when im preppy... i'm way to self-consious!

She said she liked the way when i was very into punk/emo style... and yeah...

Do you think this is true... about how people dress...?

and since she said to go to her cheer thing, should i dress my emo/punk thing?

i don't want her to feel uncomfy cuz i wear black band shirts, metal studded belt, and black nail polish... but scratched off a bit (or it looks gothic)

and since her cheersquad is going to be there.. (obviously preppy) i dont want to "not fit in"


YES I KNOW THESE THINGS ARE MINOR THINGS! BUT I JUST WANT TO KNOW!

do whatever u want to do.

A friend of mine was talking to a girl, he had long shaggy hair, he got a hair cut (pretty much a buzz cut). She said "Ew you cut ur hair" then proceeded not to want to hang out anymore.

What did he say? Fvck it! if a girl doesnt like u because of your style then eff her. BUT, thats no reason to over do it. I am not sayin twear a pink polo and pop the collar. (PLEASE GOD NO). I am saying maybe painting ur nails would freak her out. But just be normal, who cares.

It's not how you dress, it's how you act. I pity the fool.

I am very emo, and yet i don't dress the part. I dress normal, so that people will have to get to know me, to know who I am.

Like if you dress to a certain group, people automatically make assumptions about you, and that might influence their decision.

Like I dress in w/e. It looks good on me, and so people have to guess what group I belong to.

let me put it like this. I have to dress a certain way for school, but once I am out, I put on my Adio skate shoes, jeans, Avg. designer/free tshirt i got from my brother. Thats a casual style that usually doesnt fail lol. it wont get u noticed though. youll seem just like a regular dude.