alright this can be a fine line and mis-understood!


here are some examples:

taking her to do something that you dont want to do....well u want to do but not as much as she does....:

supplicating: you pay for her..get nothing but friendly responses in return.

giving: you pay for her, you get reciprocation from affection(kissing, touching) verbal affection, and possibly sex) or she pays






supplicating: you call her 3 or 4 times a day and she doenst answer or call back when u want her too.


giving: you call her when she know you will call..because u have communication and plan ahead to keep balance and she is just as eager to hear you speak and you are her.



supplicating: buying her anything for no reason! dont buy her flowers, candy, little gifts!


giving: you mutually do things for her..if she buys you something then repay the favor..but dont initate buying anything unless its for a b day or very special event.



supplicating: telling her how you feel about her..and getting nothing in return.


giving: telling her how u feel and she agrees with wht u said or says her version of what you said. or she initiates.


there are more and I Will add more as they come to me.


if u feel like its a 1 way street it is...move on!

Originally posted by frivolousz21


giving: you pay for her, you get reciprocation from affection(kissing, touching) verbal affection, and possibly sex) or she pays

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I'm not paying for her sex.

What happened to "the payment for her sex is my sex" or whatever the exact quote is?


Thank god my gf has rabbit-like qualities.

well i know ur not paying for sex.

you know i didnt imply that.....

im just pointing out for the guys who think they take a girl out on a date and they get nothing......


funny thing is..most of the nights I spend no money are the ones im getting laid