Was supposed to go out with this chick that approached ME at a club a couple weeks back. At the club she walks up to me and starts chatting me up all while leaning into me and ****, then she grabs my hand and starts leading me around the club while grinding the crap outa me. We were only together for a 15 to 20 min before her ride pulls her away and I could see and kinda hear them argueing about her really wanting to stay and her ride wanting to leave cause she was sick. So we exchanged numbers and she left.
I gave her a call last Wed to set something up for today. When I called she said she was at work and she would call me when she got out. So she calls me back and I asked her if she wanted to tag along to the drag races for today and she said sure, but instead of setting up a time and place to meet right then my dumbass told her I would give her a call later on in the week to set that up but we we both agreed to do it this sat.. So I called twice earlier in the week left a message once and got nothing back.
This is the second chick in a row who made the 1st approach and showed alot of interest only to stand me up or not return my calls as soon as I show any interest back.
The 1st chick that did this **** tried to get me to go out with her for nearly 2 months before I finally asked her out. The ***** stands me up twice before we actually go out (I only did that cause I was a dumbass and didn't have any other prospectives I was interested in) and then she agrees to a 2nd date but manages to skirt around setting anything up. WTF am I doing wrong here, these chicks shoulda been in the bag since they were the ones who approached me! Do I just naturally attract flakes?!?

Next time just tell her what YOUR plan is right off the bat, and if she doesn't like it, too ****ing bad.

75% of girls at clubs are just attention *****s and/or flirts, so don't take it personally.

WTF am I doing wrong here

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Nothing exceptionally bad or incorrect as far as I can see.

You just have to accept she was in the "club" moment when she approached you, probably running on higher emotions and thinking a whole lot differently than how she does outside of that environment.

Do I just naturally attract flakes?!?

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Yes, we all do if we are any good at this stuff.

Ya I see what ya'll are sayin, but it's really not her in particular that bothers me, hell I've been approached by chicks before and more than likely I will be again, it's just the fact that this **** is reoccuring with not just one chick but several, and the 1st one I didn't meet in a club.

Was she drunk? Because if she was then drunk girls tend to hit on a guy pretty hard at the club, the next day they are fine talking to them on the phone and then a few days later they realize they dont know who the heck you are and they are afraid of actually giving it a shot with some random dude that they danced with and spoke to meanwhile they were drunk at the club...

club / bar girls suck. Meet girls through friends. Its a lot better.