After getting a lot of feedback and people asking me about the "points system" I thought I would make it a tip.


What is it?


The Points System is an arbitrary way for you to qualify a girl and be in control of the interaction while at the same time being funny.


How to introduce it?


The first time the girl does or says something you like, give her 5 points.

Example:

HB "blah blah I like to draw pictures of cats!"

DJ "Awesome! I love pictures of cats. You just got 5 points! That's sweet."

HB "What?! hahaha"



How to keep it going?


Every time she does something you don't like you take away points. If she ever gets into negative points then you tell her she needs to redeem herself.

Keep giving her points for things that you like about her. If you like her smile or whatever else. Like I said it's all arbitrary.



When to stop.


Sometime during the night she will ask you what she gets to do with all her points. Just tell her she'll see later...

After playing this game for awhile, it's important that you STOP PLAYING IT ENTIRELY!!!!

If for everything she says you either give or take away points she's gonna think you are wierd. Just stop after a few hours.

She already knows that she has points and that "she'll see" what she can use them for. If you bring this girl in isolation and start making out, she will backwards rationalize not even logically that she earned it. Thus, you are keeping yourself as the prize that she needs to earn via the points system.

Enjoy.



animal crackers

awesome. seems like a fun thing to do (in moderation, of course)

i'll be using this :woo:

give credit where due

The Point System was first put foward by Carlos Xuma in his Dating Dynamics book and newsletter. Yep, it works, but it gets old fast, so use it sparingly.

I've used this occasionally before, it works well if you do it right...