“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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What do you like/dislike about your body?

ThreeStorms

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In case there is no thread like that already, I'll start right away:

+Tall as a tree
+V-Form on the *upper* part (see below)
+Muscular Back
+Nice Shoulders
+Good Bi-/Triceps
+Steelblue Eyes
+A nose that has the right size for my face :)

-Legs that are still too thin
-Extremely skinny wrists (I've seen kids with thicker ones)
-Not the best skin condition
-Bad Eyesight
-Strangly formed eyes and brows for a european (going into the asian direction)
-Gynecomastia since Puberty. I dont't really have breasts, it's mostly muscle and little fat up there, but because of enlarged glands, my nipples are really big and puffy :(
-A little too thin overall but but with a small spare tire. It gives me a bit of an "hourglass" form (middle area is thinner than below)
 

Jay-X

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+ blue eyes, dark curly hair, high cheekbones and big lips
+ big arms
+ nice looking chest and abs
+ broad and muscular shoulders
+ naturally smooth and clean skin


- short (5'9)
- less bulky than i'd like to be (140lbs)
- skinny legs
- sometimes i have a big gut
- a little bag under left eye
- i have to carry contact lenses, but i don't manage to wear them for several days continuosly as some friends of mine
 

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Just now i have pretty short hair, which makes my face looks small and pretty young. With clothes, it's probably not the best of things, but without clothes it makes my body look huge, and since it's already really ripped, it's all the better. With a small face and 20 lbs more muscle, i'll look like a pro bodybuilder
 

Fatality

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I like everything about me except I have somewhat high lats and I'm short. I seem to be more stretch mark prone than most people too(my back is covered).
 

Not Quite There

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hmm.

my nose after getting headbutted in it, think i broke it and it seems bigger now.

my knee has 4 screws in it. and my other knee aint 2 hot right now.

that second one kind of makes you realise how little falts don't mean ****, be thankfull your fully able and healthy.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Mercenary

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I can't be the only one with a story like this...

EVERY woman I've been with since i've become ripped has commented on my arms and shoulders. The thing is, I have long hair... so long that I have to put it into a ponytail when i do certain activities... e.g. sex. When i reach back to put it on, i guess my muscles contract and it drives them wild. I get comments like, "put your ponytail on... now take it off... put it on again."
 

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I dislike the width of my hips. Unfortunately the bone alignment of my hips seems slightly wider than my chest. (to me anyway).
 

vanwilder

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my penis is 2 big in proportion to the rest of my body.... hahah

no my legs are 2 big for my body thoguh
 

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Toothpick abs!! They just aren't wide! Hopefully this is fixable.
 

stevey_2000

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+ tanned

+ 6-pack and pecks looking good

+ legs are looking good!!, muscles, tanned and hairy legs add upto what i think as the perfect legs, dont think i can improve on them, full stop.

+ hair style that has been complimented many times by my friends and babes alike (mohican-type hair cut, i've had for years)

+ dont know if this should be included in health and fitness but i know how to chat girls up and feel confident in doing it.

oh dear, here come the bad parts....

- a nose slightly bigger than what it should be (passed down by my dad who has the same style nose but he's had many good looking babes in his time so i aint bothered bout that ;-))

- my back should be more muscly but i'm working on it


that's about it fellow DJ's!!

Ste.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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diablo

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- love handles (workin on 'em!)
- shape of head
- facial features
- body hair that i have to shave


+ leg muscles
+ shoulders & chest
+ penis size
+ height
+ complexion
+ tan
 

Visceral

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short
feminine features
small d!ck
big head
narrow shoulders
concave chest
wide hips
long legs
very high BF%
no muscle mass
pale & freckly skin
bad eyes
bad teeth
very little facial/body hair
weak high-pitched voice
no energy
no appetite
no sex drive (except to masturbate)
 
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Moving_Target

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Originally posted by Visceral
short
feminine features
small d!ck
big head
narrow shoulders
concave chest
wide hips
long legs
very high BF%
no muscle mass
pale & freckly skin
bad eyes
bad teeth
very little facial/body hair
weak high-pitched voice
no energy
no appetite
no sex drive (except to masturbate)
Me too!! :) Everyone has a twin somewhere in the world and i guess i found mine. How's it going bro!
 

Visceral

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It sucks even more than it normally would because I'm too much of a goddamned pvssy to do anything about it.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Fatality

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Originally posted by Visceral
It sucks even more than it normally would because I'm too much of a goddamned pvssy to do anything about it.
get to work man

you'll feel so much better about yourself

There's no such thing as being too much of a ***** to do anything. You just don't want it bad enough.
 

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I don't like my traps. It's always been my lagging bodypart, and it just happens to be my fav muscle. Wish I had trap genetics like Goldberg...
 

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Originally posted by MindOverMatter
I don't like my traps. It's always been my lagging bodypart, and it just happens to be my fav muscle. Wish I had trap genetics like Goldberg...
Big traps are cool but I feel that if your traps are too developed it ruins the aesthetic look. Also I've heard from many ladies they think they are the worst looking muscle.
 

MindOverMatter

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Originally posted by Fatality
Big traps are cool but I feel that if your traps are too developed it ruins the aesthetic look. Also I've heard from many ladies they think they are the worst looking muscle.
Ya I know, my girl says that big traps are nasty and that she'd leave me if I made them any bigger then they already are, but I don't care, I want big traps for ME, not HER lol. If I was bodybuilding for women, I would have stopped 30 lbs ago, cause all they want is a slim guy with a super cut body.

You're right tho, it does ruin the aestehtic look. Personally, I was never a fan of those apollonian physiques, I like the hercullian look. Shawn Ray is apollonian looking bodybuilder I liked, but mostly cause of his oblique genetics.

edit - on a sidenote, I'm gonna start working out my neck soon. Just purchased the head strap yesterday. Once my current routine is done, I'm gonna throw in some neck isolation movements on my shoulder days.
 
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