Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Be glad we live in a world where fat, ugly, bastards can get some.
Totally right.Originally posted by jprjrjr
I don't think the standard is so high for women. You got fat bytches galore who get men, and think they're the shyt.
Put it this way; a fat ugly bytch in a bar will get some horny drunk bastard to hit on her eventually. You have plenty of decent looking guys going home alone because they "don't pass muster"
It always has been, and always will be easier for women to get sex.
Game equals options. Very good looks equals options. It's all about the demand thing. Economics 101 you knowOriginally posted by Visceral
Your "decent looking guys going home alone" were either outclassed by some genetic superman or outplayed by one of those "fat, ugly bastards" with killer game.
Anyway, it still proves my point that men [usually] don't win or lose based on looks the way women do, but do so based on their game, something learned instead of inherited.
You're also talking about those women who play an active role in getting the man involved with her ... this actually makes more of a difference than anything else - the mistress manipulator at work.