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Master Don Juan
So you made a good first impression. You have probably found in the past that even at this point girls will loose interest in you only to easily. There is one assumption here, and that is that you previously played your cards right and had her interested, and now she couldn’t care less about you.
It sounds awfully familiar to this scenario doesn’t it? A small child sees another child with a certain toy. He suddenly really wants it, he nags his parents until the buy it, and with in minutes he does not care about the new toy.
There are three main principals, they work with babies and because our mind is still the same and it’s the same thing that make us tick it is the case for us and all humans.
The 1st principal is “we are all looking for fun” if you left the child in a room with a handful of toys he would prefer to play with the one he enjoys playing with most, the one that gives him the most fun time. Sure we do not make the most out of our time, you could be having more fun then you are now but you know that if someone right now gave you the opportunity to do something you would enjoy, you would do it, you just can’t be bothered to find out if any one knows of a good party etc. Well girls are looking to have a fun time with you, if you are charming and handsome but boring, the girls will soon lose interest. You must do interesting things and all in all show her that good time she is looking for
The 2nd principal is “people want something that is in demand” I’m sure you have all seen or heard about examples of a child playing with 1 of 2 toys and when some one picks up the other he wants it all of a sudden. Girls will want something that is in demand, so if you have friends calling you all the time and all her girl friends are saying how great you are she will like you more. If other people didn’t like you then the girl will sub consciously not want you as much, I am no physiologist I cant even begin to explain why people want something in demand but they sure as hell do. I remember some of my friends saying how ‘safe’ and ‘cool’ this particular girl we know is, I never talked to her much but when they said that stuff about her it raised my opinion of her 10 fold I now say hi to her and talk to her, I consider her a friend now rather then just an ‘acquaintance’ This is why popularity does help you!
The 3rd principal is “people want what they can’t have” what does this mean? Well have you ever seen a child in a shop crying or screaming at his parents because h wants a certain toy? I’m sure you have, I am sure you are aware that the child will put the toy down with in 15 minutes if he gets as much as he wants of it. If he had only a certain amount of time he could use it each day he would use it a lot more then if he could use it any time, I know this because me and my brother have often been taking turns on the PS2 on a 1 player game, as soon as 1 of us decided to stop playing the other soon follows. But we could have been playing for a long time before that. Well this is also simple, don’t be available 24/7 and don’t go out on her command when ever she wants. Don’t phone her up every night, if she says call me every night , you can tell her you don’t have time, don’t talk for hours at a time don’t stick right by her side for the whole party if you got other friends their. If you are not always their for her she will want you a lot more!
To conclude, if a girl has interest in you, you must be fun this is the most important of the 3. Being a challenge, well this is also very vital to maintaining interest and if you are needy she will drop you fast! Being in demand and popular is very good although its not vital for maintaining interest it will just raise her interest. Not being in demand will not cause you any problems unless people are slaging you off.
It sounds awfully familiar to this scenario doesn’t it? A small child sees another child with a certain toy. He suddenly really wants it, he nags his parents until the buy it, and with in minutes he does not care about the new toy.
There are three main principals, they work with babies and because our mind is still the same and it’s the same thing that make us tick it is the case for us and all humans.
The 1st principal is “we are all looking for fun” if you left the child in a room with a handful of toys he would prefer to play with the one he enjoys playing with most, the one that gives him the most fun time. Sure we do not make the most out of our time, you could be having more fun then you are now but you know that if someone right now gave you the opportunity to do something you would enjoy, you would do it, you just can’t be bothered to find out if any one knows of a good party etc. Well girls are looking to have a fun time with you, if you are charming and handsome but boring, the girls will soon lose interest. You must do interesting things and all in all show her that good time she is looking for
The 2nd principal is “people want something that is in demand” I’m sure you have all seen or heard about examples of a child playing with 1 of 2 toys and when some one picks up the other he wants it all of a sudden. Girls will want something that is in demand, so if you have friends calling you all the time and all her girl friends are saying how great you are she will like you more. If other people didn’t like you then the girl will sub consciously not want you as much, I am no physiologist I cant even begin to explain why people want something in demand but they sure as hell do. I remember some of my friends saying how ‘safe’ and ‘cool’ this particular girl we know is, I never talked to her much but when they said that stuff about her it raised my opinion of her 10 fold I now say hi to her and talk to her, I consider her a friend now rather then just an ‘acquaintance’ This is why popularity does help you!
The 3rd principal is “people want what they can’t have” what does this mean? Well have you ever seen a child in a shop crying or screaming at his parents because h wants a certain toy? I’m sure you have, I am sure you are aware that the child will put the toy down with in 15 minutes if he gets as much as he wants of it. If he had only a certain amount of time he could use it each day he would use it a lot more then if he could use it any time, I know this because me and my brother have often been taking turns on the PS2 on a 1 player game, as soon as 1 of us decided to stop playing the other soon follows. But we could have been playing for a long time before that. Well this is also simple, don’t be available 24/7 and don’t go out on her command when ever she wants. Don’t phone her up every night, if she says call me every night , you can tell her you don’t have time, don’t talk for hours at a time don’t stick right by her side for the whole party if you got other friends their. If you are not always their for her she will want you a lot more!
To conclude, if a girl has interest in you, you must be fun this is the most important of the 3. Being a challenge, well this is also very vital to maintaining interest and if you are needy she will drop you fast! Being in demand and popular is very good although its not vital for maintaining interest it will just raise her interest. Not being in demand will not cause you any problems unless people are slaging you off.