Alright, so as I've written about before, there is this girl that I like. She is very flirty with her "guy friends", so seeing some htings can temporarily cloud my vision (like another guy holding her or her sitting on someone's lap). In other words, I overthink and over-analyze too much.

Well today, a strange thing happened today and I want to know if this means anything at all.

At the end of 6th period, I leave my class and head off to where my 7th period class is. Unfortunately, I had to turn around and head to my locker because I forgot a book. Well, I passed her talking to one of my friends and resumed going to my locker. I was stunned when I heard her talking to a "guy friend" right near my locker (the hallway is a "side hallway" and isn't too crowded - I had a clear view of her). I wasn't surprised about her talking to the guy (it seemd like they may be going out, but the guy has a gf), but I was surprised that she was by my locker. Why? Well, it's in the completely opposite direction of where her class is and she is NEVER after 6th period (I got to my locker a bit after 6th period, so I know this). She wasn't even on her way to see a teacher or another friend...I was stumped.

That's the whole thing, right? Nope. As I left my locker (I had to pass her and the guy), I hear the girl's voice again. Yes, she was behind me again. As I was moving, I slowed down a bit suddenly and she and her friend pulled even to me. I said hi to her and then our paths split.

One more element: She tends to flirt with her "guy friends" when I'm nearby - she probably does a lot of the time anyway. This week, it seemed like that one "guy friend" and the girl were going out and were talking to each other a lot, but I discovered the guy has a gf already - not the girl I like.

Maybe there's nothing to it, but this all seems like it can be a "trick" or a "game". She seemed to be "stalking" me a little today, but doesn't talk to me much as of late (and yes, I do try and talk to her). What do you think - is this all nothing or is there something to it?

BIG CHUMPING

quit being so fvckin insucure and be more aggresive towards here....dont let some other guy out do you.....quit watching the game....and get in it!!!

Re: BIG CHUMPING

Originally posted by E_ze05
quit being so fvckin insucure and be more aggresive towards here....dont let some other guy out do you.....quit watching the game....and get in it!!!

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This advice helps, but it's not the main problem here.

You see, I am pretty sure the guy HAS a gf already - I've seen him with his "gf" (read: masauging her, kissing her cheek, etc.). Anyway, this guy is a monster - he is like 6'4", 220lbs and ripped. I'm 5'5"-5'6", 135lbs and I have a pretty athletic body. He's pretty damn big.

While you are definately correct E_ze05, I want to know if this little "adventure" today is nothing or if there is something to it.

She don't like you. That should be enough said, but I'll enlighten you a bit and maybe you can figure out what you want to do with it.

Yes, you're overanalyzing and the last thing you should do is NOT be punching yourself in the face for it. You know you are and you just did it again. You know it's a problem, GET UP AND DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT.

Look kid, what are you REALLY trying to get out of this? So the guy was chilling with the girl you like. And it just so happens he's huge, buff and a "monster." What the hell does that have to do with you and her?

First off, she's an attention whore, it's clear. One of the main reasons you like her is because she's probably attractive and you don't know how to get her. Since when was slutty attractive?

If you want to know more about what she thinks, there's only one thing you CAN do. Approach her, get her number, tell her to go out with you somewhere and chill.

If any of those get rejected, sorry my man, you're not in the zone and you have better spend your efforts in another walk of life. Whether than this walk around and stalk her business.

The best thing to do is to KNOW. What you're doing is wasting time trying to get by the inevitable. If she does like you too, then you need to know as soon as possible so you don't end up wasting tons of time doing what you're doing. If she doesn't, it'll be obvious that she does what she does because that's the kinda girl she is and not because you just so happen to be around.