“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

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These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Well a couple nights ago was my senior prom and it was amazing. I went stag since I didn't see the point wasting money on going with a friend and just hung out with my friends and danced with random people on the dance floor (which was quite crowded). Unfortunately, the DJ kinda sucked and was playing really fast spanish music the whole time which I don't exactly know how to dance to.
Fast forward to the afterparties... everybody was completely wasted and everyone was hookin up. I never really realized how easy it is to hook up with drunk girls until that night. This brings me to the point of this... Im starting college in June at a major party school, so obviously, there are going to be drunk chicks everywhere. I always feel a moral dilemma when hooking up with drunk girls, I can't tell if they are doing it only because they are drunk, and I wouldn't want to hook up with someone who would regret it in the morning because the non-drunk attraction isn't mutual. It seems trashy to me to hook up with drunk girls who you haven't met before, but also at the same, how can you really resist. What are your guys opinions on hooking up with drunk chicks?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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It's part of the college lifestyle. I can understand your moral dilemma, but avoiding drunken hook-ups in college means either finding a steady girlfriend right away, or hanging out with the sober girls on weekends (who are probably - no, definitely not the hottest).
 

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lol, strange the way the world works

i'm great at picking up girls on my own, or witha small group (5?) friends, but I'm TERRIBLE at getting girls at parties.

anyone recommend some reading material on this?
 

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If theyre drunk and youre not then youre a creep. Theres my opinion.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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**** that moral **** man, youre in college... get drunk, get some drunk girl, get a condom, **** her... leave and thats it
 

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i understand completely how you feel. my senior prom was also this weekend and i went with a girl who had just really been an acquiantence before. we both got really fcuked up and ended up fcuking that whole night! :D i felt bad afterwards especially when she told me she WAS a virgin (hehehe), but we both realized it was a random drunken hookup with no emotiions attached. so, it's all good.:) her friend asked her if she screwed me and she said "i dont know" until she could decide what to do :rolleyes: . i got worried for a sec about her trying to pull some **** but it turned out fine. however, i doubt i'll do anything with her again though.
 

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the way i see it, if you dont do this stuff in college your gonna be messed up later in life. think about it, if you dont your gonna have all this pent up sexuality later on that will pretty much destroy any chance at a good LTR. you will just look at every HB that goes by any your girl friend will dump you fast.

while i still dont think you should just hook up with every drunk chick there is, you gotta live it up. this is college, man! your supposed to cut loose and have some fun! its practicly a right of passage. if i were a dean, i would requre proof of at least one drunk hook up in order to graduate
 
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I just like a little bit of a challenge sometimes. Too easy ALMOST takes the fun out of it.. but not quite
 

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Cry me a fukking river... there are so many times when girls tried to get me drunk so we hook up, please stop playing captain save a hoe...


Here are some tips from a guy who actually did get laid in college..with drunk girls as well:


First rule is always true. Even if the girl is drunk, and looks like she really wants you it DOES NOT mean she will give it up. I've had girls bring me back to their places and into their beds while kissing me and then pull out "I am a virgin so we cant have sex"... and trust me guys i do know what ASD is and how to try and get around it... there are just some stone cold chicks who lead you all night long and still dont want to have fun.

You usually want to be the more sober person. If you are really drunk, people will laugh as you do stupid **** but you will not have girls chasing you. Always control your liquor, some girls love to think that a guy just has to be wasted if he is coming up to them and he isnt nervous.

Bodyshots and all that jazz, girls love it, show them the wild side.


Drunken girl's words= sober girl's thoughts. Rings true time and time again..

Here is a funny story about that:

Im at a buddy's place at a party. We are in a circle with 2 more guys and 3 chicks playing some drinking game. The girl next to me lays a card which means i have to drink 12.... I say "Dammmmnnnn.. this girl is ****ing me!!!"
she replies ... "I wish I was!!"

Drinking is fun but it is very unhealthy and causes a lot of legal trouble ( i have $1000 in tickets for underages so far), but you can manage it and make it a great time.. so go get em tiger.


oh.. P.S. girls with boyfriends who forget about them when drunk.. BE CAREFUL. you never know... i'd advice to stay away from those girls unless you dont go to that school ;) :p
 

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In college, drunken hookups are inevitable. After the first one or two awkward times, you will learn to love and embrace these drunken moments:D .

In all seriousness, chicks want to have fun, just like you do. It's their first time living away from home (likely) and all they need is an excuse to lower the anti-slvt defense. Conveniently for everyone, alcohol is that excuse.
 

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Originally posted by kiz
i understand completely how you feel. my senior prom was also this weekend and i went with a girl who had just really been an acquiantence before. we both got really fcuked up and ended up fcuking that whole night! :D i felt bad afterwards especially when she told me she WAS a virgin (hehehe), but we both realized it was a random drunken hookup with no emotiions attached. so, it's all good.:) her friend asked her if she screwed me and she said "i dont know" until she could decide what to do :rolleyes: . i got worried for a sec about her trying to pull some **** but it turned out fine. however, i doubt i'll do anything with her again though.
Damn, I wish I could say the same.

My prom was this weekend also (I'm a junior though) and I took a girl that is an acquaintance, and she's arguably the hottest girl in her grade (sophomore), so I was obviously hoping for some action. Unfortunately that didn't happen. She really wasn't into me that much, which probably had something to do with the fact that we didn't know each other that well. We had a good amount of things to talk about early in the night, but by the end I couldn't think of many things to say. And while we did end up drinking, she didn't have much at all despite expressing strong interest in drinking a lot earlier, because she was really tired and had to go home in a few hours. Oh well, always next year I guess.
 
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