“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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How to be a jerk??

Lostwithoutacost

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Im your typical nice guy, considerate, caring, forgiving, interesting with a large varied of hobbies, patient and loayl. But knowing that women like a bit of jerk mixed in with nice guy, what does a jerk do?
 

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Fender

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NOOOO! NOOOOO! NOOOOO!

Don't turn yourself into a jerk! Don't even try to. Ever heard that "Imitation is suicide"?

By just looking at the first sentance, I can tell what your problem is. You don't have enough confidence with yourself, and with women. You treat women like I treat my mom. And who can blame you? Society likes programming us men into little sacks of wuss.

I suggest you read some of Pooks posts in the bible like "Kill that desperation" and "Be a man!"

And most importantly, get out there and experiment!

-peace-
 

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The difference between you and a jerk is that the jerk doesn't care.

The jerk has confidence, because he doesn't put anythign on the line. He is confident and sure of himself. That being said, he is also a jerk. They get women, but eventually she will realize that the jerk is an empty shell of a person.

The Don Juan has all of the positive aspects that I just listed but has an actual personality. You can be considerate and chivalrous without being a total wuss. That is the DJ. Perfect blend of hardass edge with nice guy charm. Essentially, the complete man.

Shoot for that instead.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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