Don Corleone
Don Juan
Since joining this site, I have always kind of sat back and soaked up the advice that my fellow DJ's have given. With ever growing success, I feel it is my duty to enlighten everyone on this board who is struggling with women.
What I am about to tell you is the truth, so soak it up.
My Theory: You Get What You Put In...
While walking through the Quad of the University I attend, I started thinking about this whole game we play with women. While deep in thought, I had a revelation.
With anything in life, You Get Back What You Put In.
Take a look at yourself. Are you overweight? Do you have bad heigene? Are you Femenine? Look at every charactaristic about yourself, and write them down.
With your list in front of you, think of a woman you desire. Take every charactaristic on your list and imagine that girl with them. Would you be attracted to her?
Would you want to be with an unintelligent, overweight, nerdy, smelly girl? HELL NO!
Now, my theory doesn't apply to all. Heck, just today I saw a HB9.5 with a total loser, and I thought to myself "What the hell does she see in that guy?". He must have his sh!t together.
IF YOU WANT TO GET A GIRL WITH A NICE BODY, NICE HAIR, SMELLS GOOD, GOOD TEETH, GREAT PERSONALITY, THEN YOU NEED TO HAVE THOSE CHARACTERISTICS.
Why would a HB9 be attracted to you? What do you have to offer? They are just like you and me, they want to do good for themselves, so in order to even make it fair for these HB's, you should work on yourself in order to have good qualities.
Sitting on your ass eating funions all day, then going and doing a cold approach at your local starbucks ISNT going to help you. Then you wonder what is wrong with you, why you can't get a girlfriend.
If you want a girl with a nice body who works out, why shouldn't you? If you expect something of a potential mate, then shouldn't you hold yourself to that standard.
Are you femenine? Do you act like a women and let women walk all over you? Well, If you do then imagine a very masculine women. You wouldn't be attracted to her would you?(i hope not). So why should women be attracted to your femenine a$$???
I am attracted to very femenine girls, So in order to hold myself to the same standard I must be very masculine, and in charge.
MY MESSAGE TO YOU: IF YOU HAVE ANY CHARACTERISTICS THAT YOU, YOURSELF WOULDN'T FIND ATTRACTIVE IN A PARTNER...THEN FIX IT!
Stop whining, and stop posting crap like, "SHE LOOKED AT ME, WHAT DO I DO NOW?"
Heres what you do: You work on every aspect about yourself that you can change (for the better). And if theres something about you that you can't change, then simply grow to get used to it, and eventually you will realize that it makes you who you are.
Hold yourself to the same standard that you hold women to.
If you don't like a girl that whines and moanes, then don't do it yourself.
I guarantee you that if you get all of the areas of your life handled that you dont like, you will have better success with women (after much studying of the DJ Bible, and Practice, of course).
What I am about to tell you is the truth, so soak it up.
My Theory: You Get What You Put In...
While walking through the Quad of the University I attend, I started thinking about this whole game we play with women. While deep in thought, I had a revelation.
With anything in life, You Get Back What You Put In.
Take a look at yourself. Are you overweight? Do you have bad heigene? Are you Femenine? Look at every charactaristic about yourself, and write them down.
With your list in front of you, think of a woman you desire. Take every charactaristic on your list and imagine that girl with them. Would you be attracted to her?
Would you want to be with an unintelligent, overweight, nerdy, smelly girl? HELL NO!
Now, my theory doesn't apply to all. Heck, just today I saw a HB9.5 with a total loser, and I thought to myself "What the hell does she see in that guy?". He must have his sh!t together.
IF YOU WANT TO GET A GIRL WITH A NICE BODY, NICE HAIR, SMELLS GOOD, GOOD TEETH, GREAT PERSONALITY, THEN YOU NEED TO HAVE THOSE CHARACTERISTICS.
Why would a HB9 be attracted to you? What do you have to offer? They are just like you and me, they want to do good for themselves, so in order to even make it fair for these HB's, you should work on yourself in order to have good qualities.
Sitting on your ass eating funions all day, then going and doing a cold approach at your local starbucks ISNT going to help you. Then you wonder what is wrong with you, why you can't get a girlfriend.
If you want a girl with a nice body who works out, why shouldn't you? If you expect something of a potential mate, then shouldn't you hold yourself to that standard.
Are you femenine? Do you act like a women and let women walk all over you? Well, If you do then imagine a very masculine women. You wouldn't be attracted to her would you?(i hope not). So why should women be attracted to your femenine a$$???
I am attracted to very femenine girls, So in order to hold myself to the same standard I must be very masculine, and in charge.
MY MESSAGE TO YOU: IF YOU HAVE ANY CHARACTERISTICS THAT YOU, YOURSELF WOULDN'T FIND ATTRACTIVE IN A PARTNER...THEN FIX IT!
Stop whining, and stop posting crap like, "SHE LOOKED AT ME, WHAT DO I DO NOW?"
Heres what you do: You work on every aspect about yourself that you can change (for the better). And if theres something about you that you can't change, then simply grow to get used to it, and eventually you will realize that it makes you who you are.
Hold yourself to the same standard that you hold women to.
If you don't like a girl that whines and moanes, then don't do it yourself.
I guarantee you that if you get all of the areas of your life handled that you dont like, you will have better success with women (after much studying of the DJ Bible, and Practice, of course).