I was thinking one day that pornography addiction may have caused me to become AFC around women. Hoping to copy certain "acts" which intensified my desperation for a sexual relationship with a woman and to have a girlfriend. I've also rejected women in the past that where possible relationships because they weren't physically "perfect". A body image in my head based on years of looking at models/actresses in magazines and videos. It seems as though when I don't look at X rated material for a while I start seeing women as human beings and not as objects. But porn still has a hold on me. What do you guys (or ladies) think?

I've never really seen pornography before like Playboy or videos or anything like that to tell you the truth. However, I'd read about stuff and seen some random pics over the net that have been exposed to me in some way through ads and whatnot.

Anyhow, I feel that is it detrimental in the long run and whatever I've been seeing I am trying to give up along with masuturbation.

Porn really isn't that good for you. Just reading what you said and how it made you see women and feel certian things, if i were you i'd lay off of it. You have to realize that porn is a FANTASY and NOT reality! there aren't women out there! and YES, porn stars have physical flaws! its called airbrushing! please quit watching porn if you want to get back into reality where the real women are. its good that you realized it tho.

from your post it does sound like more of a problem than a positive.

I think it definitely hurts your game. You get this false image of women, plus the more you jack off the lazier you'll get (in both life and in pursuing women. Notice how I said life first, because THAT should be your top priority). You need to focus your horniness on obtaining a woman. I'm not telling you to start humping legs or anything, but women respect a man who is open about his sexuality (I don't mean in a bisexual way either) more so than the guy who always hides his.

I think porn owns and i love it and try to watch it at least once every couple of days.

I'll tell you what's AFC, asking people if something is AFC. A true DJ doesn't really care what others think about him. You shouldn't either, porn is good for ya. It helps me remain faithful

porn cant make you afc, only you can make yourself afc