“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Ruined my chances w/girl in email, can it be fixed?

solo1

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Well anyway yesterday i responded to this girls email.

her questions asked if ive done traveling and where.

Since i havent quite done any traveling on my own, i named 4 places that i traveled to when i was a kid on family trips.
i named the places, but did not indicate i went as a kid.

At first i felt kinda lame if i told her i dont travel and havent gone anywhere lately. So i wrote her the places. and asked if she's done any similar traveling.

Now after writing it i feel like im bragging, and if she hasnt traveled at all, it would make her feel worse.

I havent gotten a response from her yet, so meh...if she feels i have a big ego and doesnt wana talk anymore, oh well.

Any possible ways to fix this by emailing her again?
 

insomniac

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Don't bother worrying about what you may have said wrong. Chances are, she'll flake and stop writing back to you for reasons you can't possibly begin to imagine. It's a numbers game.

If you're not already, get talking to more than one woman on the internet. Once you're doing that, you won't care if one of them doesn't write back. If you feel bad doing that, just remember they're doing the same thing to you.

Don't worry about the travel comment...just brush it off and move on to something else, lightly make fun of her, and most importantly, find out what she's passionate about and get her to talk in depth about it. Works wonders.
 

diablo

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Maybe she had to go to the doctor for chronic diarhea. Maybe she's recovering from a sex change operation. Maybe she's at a KKK gathering. Who knows why she didn't email you right back? Who cares? I hate to be blunt, but it sounds like you really need to get back into the game and start talking up a lot more women - if you're this hung up over 1 single girl you've emailed once or twice, odds are good you're not approaching any girls in person. If I'm wrong, I apologize... but I don't think I am. Have you checked out the DJ Boot Camp? I think it could be very beneficial to you... if you do decide approaching girls in real life is too overwhelming, try doing a search in titles only for "online".
 
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