Well i have this girl that i have talked to on a regular basis, and we can talk to each other about everything literally. I have NEVER been able to open up to a girl like i have her. What we have is great, we have both at some point told each other we had feelings for the other person, but with her she doesnt want to take it that next step, because she says that she doesnt want us to get into a fight and break up and then loose the relationship and friendship that we have. So im basically one of her girlfriends that she talks to about everything I want the relationship to go that next step where we are together, but I'm not sure how to get it that next step i feel that if we did get together and faught we would be able to keep are friendship afterwards but she feels otherwise. Now another problem has come into play i have moved to Arizona, she lived in california. She is flying down at the end of this month to hang out. I am hoping when she is down in arizona for the weekend i can take it passed that next step since we will be together for a couple days straight. Any tips?

I wouldn't recommend a long distance relationship.

But, if she's coming down for a few days and you want to get sexual, I'd recommend GWM.

-Dominant

I'm in agreement with dominant. Long distance relationships rarely work out even for strong young couples. You haven't even reached the couples stage so I'd say your future long distance relationship has even less chances of sucess.

I'd just go for a hook up for the time that she's down there with you but agree to just remain good distant friends.

ya i actually have to agree with the long distance thing. One of my problems is i cant "just be friends" with this girl. She has one of those personalities where you just gotta either be with her or nothing at all.


EDIT: Also she is moving closer to me with her family. Her mom might also be buying a house in arizona soon right next to me. and i go back home to cali kinda often

When you spend more and more time away from her, your feelings will fade. Not saying it's bad but you aren't even in a realationship with her, so you probably will forget her after a few trips to the bar and happen across a few chicks from scottsdale (YIKES!!).

aww yes scottsdale woman....haha some of them are the most stuck up girls you will EVER meet. I was over her compeltely and it was purely a friends thing and i didnt care, then i went back to my home town in cali and we bonded like crazy, she was asking me about passed relationships in arizona, who ive kissed, last person ive had feelings for, etc etc etc and needless to say i got re-whipped lol I've lived on ym own for about 9 months now im 19, it took me a couple months to get over her completely, and accept just being friends....Maybe im in for a couple more months

hehe those scottsdale chicks think they're the best thing going don't they? My boys and I ran some serious game on some of them last summer I think it was. It was a thing of beauty, they didn't even see it coming.

That's the best thing about scottsdale girls, they think they're all that till they hit another major metropolitian area, then they're just scared little girls in a grown up world.

Just go out, have a good time and don't worry about what you could have with this girl. Like you said it may take a few months, but you'll get over it.

ya i think i should just go out try to find other girls, we have both said we would always be there for each other so maybe things will just work out later in life, so i should go out play the field and just be happy i always have somoene there when i need them the most