First of all I'd like to say, hey, and second of all I need advice lol...

Ok, my name is Jason in RL, and I'm 15. I am a shy guy, though I have considerably come out of my shell since I was younger, but now I need advice on relationships... First of all, let's go back to a land far, far away in Washington State...

I used to be a real nerd in my post-elementary and pre-highschool grades. I once even skipped school and ran home so I could get a few levels higher on a computer game called, Dark Age of Camelot. I guess you could say I was somewhat disturbed at the time, and instead of getting saturday school I blamed it on depression and I didn't get any punishment at all! >

Anyways, I got out of the gaming scene and geekhood about a year ago and am now heavily into music. I play the guitar, and I guess you could say I'm a songwriter, though I'm far from writing a "hit" song. I'm also thinking about doing "gigging" in the near future and hopefully will become a rockstar someday lol...

My problem is this, though I'm not really a nerd anymore, I feel like a loser; I've never gone on a date before. I have no problem talking to people I know, except for girls, and like every horny teenager, you get the urge to want a girlfriend. I also severely worry about saying or doing something stupid and it always gets me down. When I actually do or say something stupid it makes me feel like sh*t and makes me want to go home and cut my wrists(not literally, but you get the point). I can never seem to walk by a girl and smile or say hi, but I can talk to a girl if they are the one who starts the conversation... Most of the time.

Now, I need advice on what to say to girls. I saw this one cute chick at lunch, and I want to go up and talk to her. I don't know how to start the conversation or what to say. Should I say "hey, what's up" or "hi, what's your name"? Or something? I have the strange problem of thinking if there's no excuse for talking to them, why should I, they would think I'm a loser or in disgust. I wouldn't say I'm the worst looking guy in the world also; I'm pretty bad ass .

If I could get people to know me better I could actually become one of the "popular" kids. But there lies the problem, I just don't know what to say, and I know it's pretty pathetic .

Help me, Master Don Juan.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=33715

Here ya go...

Everything you need to know...

But before you try anything, I suggest that you fix yourself first before you do anything else, that shouldn't take long depending on your dedication.

Do you have any older siblings or cousins who could help you? These can be more help than an old wise person because old wise people are out of touch with current situations young people get into.

Originally posted by Maeisgood
Do you have any older siblings or cousins who could help you? These can be more help than an old wise person because old wise people are out of touch with current situations young people get into.

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Unfortunately I'm an only child, but I do have some cousins that could help me. Only problem is I rarely see them.