“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Alright, this is the third first date this happens : I get the perfect occasion to kiss-close a chick, and I either can't get the guts, or don't "feel it" .... WTF is going on ?? On the second date, no more problem, I kiss her without even thinking about it. But the first is different .... I donno why, but I just can't get myself to kiss her.

I mean, I can easily get to kino-ing her, and I know that she's interested (we went on a movie date, and we were holding hands and ****, she was laughing at everything I said, eye contact ...), but when it comes to the kiss, I just can't do it. I donno, it's like I'm afraid to do it or something .....

Someone help me get this kissophobia out of my system !:(
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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who says you must kiss her?

less is more sometimes.

if you dont feel like kissing her, dont.

if you want to kiss her , but you are just a little scared, wait til the end and give her a peck on the cheeck and walk away.

make her want to kiss you.

let it all build up.
 
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Originally posted by penkitten
who says you must kiss her?

less is more sometimes.

if you dont feel like kissing her, dont.

if you want to kiss her , but you are just a little scared, wait til the end and give her a peck on the cheeck and walk away.

make her want to kiss you.

let it all build up.
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yeah, taht's what I did actually ... lol

We were talking, then convo stalled, so we started walking back to the door, and there we hug and I cheek-kiss her ...
 
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Actually, if there is an aspect of intimacy which you feel really uncomfortable about, it's important to practice that weakness to hell before you get too old and the tension is fully ingrained. If you truly believe it's not your thing, find other intimate acts that help you achieve that feeling. Just understand that you may eventually find partners that seek what you cannot give.

EDIT - Just read that it's only a first date problem. In that case, no worries, build up the anticipation. :)
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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