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This began as a reference to the post “Do women have all the power? "
Do woman really have the power to do and get what they please?
Women will only have that kind of power if you choose to give it to them.
Allow me to bore you for a moment with a story and a point.
Ex. A girl I’m seeing now, apon first meeting her she was going out with one of my friends, and she acts exactly the way all the DJs on here should act. Confident!
After she broke up with my friend she started flirting with me, with the attitude that she could do anything she wanted with me as well as get anything she wanted from me.
She pretty much openly stated that when she said “I have guys flirt with me all the time and I can get anyone I choose”. I reciprocated with “Oh really? Me too.” followed by a somewhat modified neg-hit that went like “but, girls really have to do a lot more than flirt with me for 5 minutes to get my undivided attention, and I will not be influenced by the idea of sex with attractive girls (i.e. whipped like many AFCs)”, and the closer “no girl has ever successfully withheld sex to get something she wanted because once she tried she realized that it is a mutual pleasure and that she wanted it as much if not more than I did.”
Keep in mind this is through 2 or more conversations, not all at once.
What I pretty much told her was that she definitely would not be the one in control. I think that this also came as somewhat of a shock to her when she found me i.e. a guy that could not be influenced into her control and this also really intrigued her.
I also went to state that she will have to compete for my time with the other girls that I’m seeing, because I am looking for what these girls have to offer me.
By the time this all came to pass I pretty much had her mesmerized because she realized that she would have to work to see me and not the other way around.
I have found his strategy to be most effective because it makes her work hard just for your attention, as well as you can continue to see however many people you want until, you either settle down with one or you make a mistake so that she looses interest.
And, now my final point…
As most literature on this site states you must maintain control of the situation, you must not waiver from whichever principles and/or standards you have set for yourself, you must be steadfast, and have and openly display conviction in something to say the least (even if it’s not an important view, you must still show belief in it (Remember you are supposed to be the alpha male)).
-Yuriy-
P.S. I leave you now with a brief lesson my parents taught me when I was an AFC that I found to be a good thing to keep in mind throughout life…
“If you say ‘Yes’ they will like you briefly, but if you say ‘No’ they will respect you indefinitely.”
P.P.S. And, another that my best friend said and lives by…
“Sometimes, you just have to put your foot down…” sometimes followed by “…, or these people will just walk all over you”
This began as a reference to the post “Do women have all the power? "
Do woman really have the power to do and get what they please?
Women will only have that kind of power if you choose to give it to them.
Allow me to bore you for a moment with a story and a point.
Ex. A girl I’m seeing now, apon first meeting her she was going out with one of my friends, and she acts exactly the way all the DJs on here should act. Confident!
After she broke up with my friend she started flirting with me, with the attitude that she could do anything she wanted with me as well as get anything she wanted from me.
She pretty much openly stated that when she said “I have guys flirt with me all the time and I can get anyone I choose”. I reciprocated with “Oh really? Me too.” followed by a somewhat modified neg-hit that went like “but, girls really have to do a lot more than flirt with me for 5 minutes to get my undivided attention, and I will not be influenced by the idea of sex with attractive girls (i.e. whipped like many AFCs)”, and the closer “no girl has ever successfully withheld sex to get something she wanted because once she tried she realized that it is a mutual pleasure and that she wanted it as much if not more than I did.”
Keep in mind this is through 2 or more conversations, not all at once.
What I pretty much told her was that she definitely would not be the one in control. I think that this also came as somewhat of a shock to her when she found me i.e. a guy that could not be influenced into her control and this also really intrigued her.
I also went to state that she will have to compete for my time with the other girls that I’m seeing, because I am looking for what these girls have to offer me.
By the time this all came to pass I pretty much had her mesmerized because she realized that she would have to work to see me and not the other way around.
I have found his strategy to be most effective because it makes her work hard just for your attention, as well as you can continue to see however many people you want until, you either settle down with one or you make a mistake so that she looses interest.
And, now my final point…
As most literature on this site states you must maintain control of the situation, you must not waiver from whichever principles and/or standards you have set for yourself, you must be steadfast, and have and openly display conviction in something to say the least (even if it’s not an important view, you must still show belief in it (Remember you are supposed to be the alpha male)).
-Yuriy-
P.S. I leave you now with a brief lesson my parents taught me when I was an AFC that I found to be a good thing to keep in mind throughout life…
“If you say ‘Yes’ they will like you briefly, but if you say ‘No’ they will respect you indefinitely.”
P.P.S. And, another that my best friend said and lives by…
“Sometimes, you just have to put your foot down…” sometimes followed by “…, or these people will just walk all over you”