midwestguy
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I was wondering if there is a girl you like and want to ask out if you tell her you think shes hot could that get you a slap in the face? DO girls find comments like hot to be degrading?
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Well basically she isn't going to find it "degrading" per say. But by you approaching her and just saying "Your Hot" what shes really hearing from your lips is "Hi I'm just like every single other guy here and i'm only talking to you because I want to get in your pants" .
Thats my oppinion. I would suggest saying something a little less vivid. Maybe picking out something specific about her like her eyes for example and just saying "Wow I like your eyes" or something of that sort. I'm sure there are some women out there tho who would like a guy to tell them they are hot but if the woman you are approaching IS really hot chances are shes gonna be tired of hearing it from every other guy.
Thats my oppinion. I would suggest saying something a little less vivid. Maybe picking out something specific about her like her eyes for example and just saying "Wow I like your eyes" or something of that sort. I'm sure there are some women out there tho who would like a guy to tell them they are hot but if the woman you are approaching IS really hot chances are shes gonna be tired of hearing it from every other guy.
midwestguy
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that girl I still like at work next time I call her up I;ll tell her I think shes hot.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
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