My girl is not very experienced... Found out the other day. After I made her come through oral and fingering, she returned the favour, but not even after almost 15 minutes of BJ did she give me any real pleasure.
I stayed hard, and we had sex afterwards, but the condom was too tight and I didnt feel a thing so we just drifted into kissing and left it like that. It was exhausting.

It was quite nice though, it was our first time together.

Anyway, I'm not very experienced myself, but I think I'm good because I'm very passionate. We got together the very first time I kissed her, and I don't know her for that long.

Any ideas on how to instruct her how to do it without killing the "atmosphere"? It doesnt feel nice to tell her what to do but it was quite frustrating pretending to enjoy it while i was barely feeling anything. She was only sucking the tip and ignoring the rest, giving very gentle tugs with her hand. Like she thought she was going to break it or something.

Thanks for your comments in advance!

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well the next time that happens you should do the following:

take your hand and put it around hers and grab it as tight as you can and say " dont worry , it wont break"
and then tell her " i like it tight "

then a few seconds later when shes just grabbing it tight and that is all , grab your hand around hers again and show her how you like to be stroked.

and before you know it , you will be brave enough to eventually get tired of her only licking the top and you will just push her head all the way down .
yes, she will get mad..
however, its a lesson every girl learns.

IF you are not enjoying sex then by all means you need to tell her exectly how you want it. Stroke her hair while she is down there, tell her how you love what she is doing but you will love it even more if she did this and did that.

If you are not enjoying her tounge action alone, tell her to put Ky between her breasts and squeeze them around your d1ck and move them up and down, while on occasions she can try to put most of it in her mouth . Instruct her exectly how fast you want her to go and how tight do you want the squeeze.