Dear all,

Its funny how ur psych goes when u are leavin a place.. Here goes a quick summ up of past 2 days:

Approached chic in pasadena city college's library(i do not enroll there ) so basically i see this HOOOOTBabe 9 ( asian chic, usually defenses higher from experience) -- and did a quick basic rapport convo-->2-3 minutes, then a 'takeaway'(i realize this works real well) as if u're done for the day, like, bye, nice talkin to ya etc, then later, say 20 min or some time later, go back to her, and say, "hey, i'm about to go, but i want to talk to you again--u got an email"--and when she's almost done writin "oh u got a # too?"

basically i got her #/email/msn.. dunno what to do with those now.. she's (hottest chic in library at that time) and i was glad for a contact close

2nd day, i appraoched a mall cute chic 9 as well, she was reall cute.. and i saw the chance as she's the only employee in shop at the time AND (no other customers/ ISOLATION), hence, i did the same routine, basic rapport convo, takeaway, go around mall, come back with same contact lcose method and got her #/email..

AS I HAVE BEEN DOING quite a # of mall sarges before, i realize that unprecedented comebacks help out a lot.. and the email, sudden # close is cool as well(thx to deangleo)

now the pB is I DUNNO WHAT TO DO WITH THESE CONTACTS!
help, any comments appreciated

call them and invite there somewhere you can show them a good time.

good for you man. You got em why not use them.

on post approach

set it up on im?? but isn't it easier for 'em to flake u then?? if u're on IM?? .. i'm not sure how u guys do it.. but how r u supposed to trust a person just based on im msgin??

and establish rapport thru 'im--experienced that u msg them and they take long time to msg u back.......... is that some sort of **** test or chic gamin?

but how r u supposed to trust a person just based on im msgin??

and establish rapport thru 'im--experienced that u msg them and they take long time to msg u back..........

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That's the reason I HATE using IM.

Plus, in order, these are the easiest situations to reject someone . . .

Easiest - through writing (IM, email, letter, etc.)

Harder - On the phone

Hardest - In person.

So if you wanna make sure you GET THE CHANCE to build rapport and secure that date, you gotta ask in person if possible. Next on the phone. Don't even bother through IM unless you KNOW you're not risking rejection.

It's much harder to refuse someone face to face for something. So if the ARE on the fence about you, they'll have a harder time refusing the date if you ask in person or on the phone than if you ask through IM/email. So GET the date with the person that's on the fence, then just blow her mind while you're on the date and she'll finally realize, "Damn. It's a good thing I said yes. This one's AWESOME."

Alexi