Picking her up or not? + what to do after the date? give her a ride?

hey all, i have a "technical" question...

so im gonna meet (for real) a girl i met through the net (from my same city, she is really exited to meet me etc)

so, i know that she goes to a language institute, and i thought that i may pick her up there (i got a car), but then again, i started to have seconds thoughts about both of us meeting at the accorded place.

thats question 1, and question 2 is, because i got a car, should i like, give her a ride home? or just like say goodbye and like go around the corner and then get my car or what?

I say this because once she told me the area where she is and it is REALLY far from my house we are talking of probably 45 or so with a medium traffic. (from the place we would meet, then i would have to CROSS the entire city, and get back home :S)

so what should i do?

(i live in mexicos 2nd largest city...it is LARGE)

from my experience, these kinds of girls are not worth meeting

DONT DO IT!

Most the time these internet chicks are fat and ugly. If they look cute then they have a mental problem.

If your going to agree to meet and internet chick.. find a neutral meeting ground like the mall. So if the chic is hideous you can easily bail.

If you decide to pick her up you will have to deal with her the whole time. Not to mention if she ugly... and if some of your friends see you guys together... lol bad move playa.

lol, it my sound like the opposite, but im not the kind of guy who usually meet chicks over the net or something

it was quite weird, she was friend of a guy who was friend of mine.

One day, all of a sudden, he added me to a conversation with her, and i kept talking to her after that

the thing calmed down and she had been in my msn like for 1 year, with out me ever talking to her.

but i downloaded the msn 7 (beta) where the avatar/display pictures also appears in the "somebody has connecteed" little pop-out window.

so one day i saw this REALLY nice girl in the little avatar at the pop up window, i open the chat window and saw it was her, so i started to chat again with her (she was quite surpized of cursed, like just all of a sudden i started to chat to her, she didnt even remember how was that she had me on her contacts), she is pretty self confident with her body, and has sent me several pics (they are not fake), and i like her personality, (well...at least her "virtual personality"), we where just chatting, but suddendly one day we realized that we really wanted to meet each other, thats what i wanted and thought, and thats what she wanted, and went ahead and actually told it to me.

so no, i dont think she is a no life girl that spends all day over the net like that, she is an "average msn user" which i happend to met. She is a normal girl that goes out, has friends, just finished high school, and use msn (like millions of other chicks), and i repeat, i just met her by "accident"


plus, i just posted another post that explained a little better the situation and everybody just said "Go meet the girl.NOW."

so i want to know what to do about it

i think we should meet in a certain place like a café or something, but my real concern is like, when the date is over, like, what would be the "best" (not right thing to do, but the best thing to do),

say goodbye and just like go in my car and let her wait for the bus?? (doesnt really sound good to me..)

or, take her all the way to her house (really really far,+ i think its a bit "too personal")

:S

thats my real question