My new gf takes much longer time to climax, then anyone I been with before (like 40 minutes). I on the other hand starts lossing concentration after around 30 minutes, any inputs?

More foreplay ...

Depends on whom I am with:

1. Tanya about 30-40 minutes. It takes her about 10 minutes to have her first orgasm. And then after her 4th or 5th I will try to time the next one with her.

2. Tina about 30 minutes..but she can only get one nut

3. Cathleen. She gets about 10 in 30 minutes.

4. Jovine. about the same with 3 or 4

5. Tiffani hmmm she is the same as jovine

6. Christine..she is a squirter and cumms endlessly so I average 1 hour with her cause I am always curious how many times she can keep on squirting and cumming.

7. Kimberly about 20 minutes 4 her 3 or 4 nuts

8. Dorian..about the 20 minutes also

9. Akasha...I've only had sex with her once she's new

10. Deseree same as akasha but she can cumm alot

11. Crystal she is an old friend and we last about 45 minutes with the useage of a vibrator on her ass and role playing ****.

So I would guess the average is 45 minutes. But if your girl is only getting one nut in 45 minutes then she is like my friend Tina who is wrapped too tight in the head. Tina constantly worries about ****...how much weight she has gained...work...family..she did lose both parents to cancer....and I am the first man she has ever had a nutt with through penetration and the first bunch of times it took over an hour to get her off.

Your girl may just need to feel more relaxed and comfortable around you.

Yep.. I totally know what your going on about here.. after about 30 mins I tend to loose interest too and just want to ***..I mean wow.. yeah interesting and different positions and all.. but cmon.. after 30 mins the porno becomes boring and you wanna skip to the next girl.. LOL anyway.. in my experience

anywhere from 5 mins (loved this girl!!) to 3hrs (****ing hated this one.. and usually didn't *** myself in the end cause I was sore and/or bored.. or lost erection b4 she got there) LOL

Some girls don't seem to ***... even if you keep going they just don't get there... probably because they are too worried about things.

As for keeping interest... change positions often.. and my main reccomendation is figure out what stimulates her most and what she is most confortable with.. actually confort 1st.. Ie: Girl gets off more on doggy but is ashamed of ass.. don't do her doggy cause she will stress heaps and prolly won't ***.. or turn off the lights and do it pitch black. Actually most women *** a lot quicker in the dark.. cause most of them have physical hang ups.. so in the dark then can just enjoy.

Actually give it some time.. as she becomes more confortable she'll probably take a little less.. also foreplay is right.. get her very close with oral, fingering whatever before you stick it.

It lasts however long I want it to last. I set the pace. I decide how long it takes for my woman to climax, or even if she climaxes.

Originally posted by DoubleD
Some girls don't seem to ***... even if you keep going they just don't get there... probably because they are too worried about things.

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It couldn't possibly have anything to do with you, right?

Sorry, but I find it amusing that you're able to pass that off as the girls fault so quickly.

40 min is not that long a time period...

different.....

DJ,

Each one has their own 'thing'.

One will c0me 18 times and the next one can't even c0me once.

Fore-play is a key.

But, a real key is after-play.

ie;

When you finish tell her... "Don't you move". And you bring her a wet hot wash-rag and a dry one.

Then you start your after-play (back and foot massage).

Don't forget to 'stroke' her hair.

Most men forget about after-play.

cave dweller

also,

DJ,

Also, if you are in to 'eating at the Y'.

While you are there use your finger to work the 'G' spot.

Rub it real slow A-Z then use the upper case letters and rub it again.

Also, bend your finger back towards your nose.

cave dweller

one more.....

DJ,

One more here:

She is on her back---
You are beside her with her right leg over your right leg and your right leg is over her left leg and you are 'stroking'.

ok.............

Your left hand can play with her right nipple.

Your right hand can stroke her pvssy.

And your 'woody' is on the 'G' spot.

I call this one the 'Three point giggy'.

cave dweller

Maybe this can help

http://healthboards.healthology.com...s&f=sexual_health&c=sexualperformance&spg=FIA

Re: Maybe this can help

Originally posted by Aztec
http://healthboards.healthology.com...s&f=sexual_health&c=sexualperformance&spg=FIA

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What was the end result of that article?

I think sex should be as long as the woman is still able to achieve orgasms. However long that is.

And I don't count foreplay into my time lenght.

Interesting topic.

Am I the only one that sees something between the lines?

Bored after thirty minutes?

I realize that there are some of us who just like to get a girl and "git 'r' done".

If this is an LTR, and you're getting bored after 30-45 minutes, consider that you may be with the wrong girl.

My grandmother used to say that if you're bored, it's because you're boring.

If your lady just lays there, have you thought about giving her a slap on the booty? Make it fun! Instead of sucking on her toungue, blow air in.

Say crazy things like "I'm gona fart, I'm gonna fart!" right when she's going down on you. (just kidding- not a recommended course of action)

you should get the point. Relax and enjoy yourself. If you're not, tell the girl that you're sorry, but she's just not right for you.

Hmmm.. I think this needs a definition.. was the intention of how long does it last supposed to include all the foreplay etc etc or just the sex? Ie: Its in and we're pumpin'.. cause they are two totally different topics.