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Grinding advice... please!

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Hi guys,

I'm just wondering about grinding. Are you meant to er... get "aroused" when you're doing it?

Someone told me you are, but all I can think is the girl would think that's disgusting! I've always ejected during grinding because I can feel an erection coming on!

Please help!!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Originally posted by yesterday_nothing
Hi guys,

I'm just wondering about grinding. Are you meant to er... get "aroused" when you're doing it?

Someone told me you are, but all I can think is the girl would think that's disgusting! I've always ejected during grinding because I can feel an erection coming on!

Please help!!
Yes, guys get aroused when they are rubbing their genitals on attractive women. Weird how that works.

If a girl you're grinding thinks that's disgusting, then you might want to stop grinding the third-grade girls.
 

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lol, ok cool thanks! I'm just coming out of AFC stage and I'm kind of discovering all this stuff for the first time!

So um... what do you do if she goes to the bathroom or something and your trousers look like a tent?!
 

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Re: Re: Grinding advice... please!

Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
Yes, guys get aroused when they are rubbing their genitals on attractive women. Weird how that works.

If a girl you're grinding thinks that's disgusting, then you might want to stop grinding the third-grade girls.
HAHAHAHAHA :p :p


You crack me up gio
 

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Re: Re: Re: Grinding advice... please!

Originally posted by Vincent
HAHAHAHAHA :p :p

You crack me up gio
I try.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Originally posted by yesterday_nothing
lol, ok cool thanks! I'm just coming out of AFC stage and I'm kind of discovering all this stuff for the first time!

So um... what do you do if she goes to the bathroom or something and your trousers look like a tent?!
Then that means she is hot and she'll be happy (just like you are.) Girls actually like it when they know you are hard from grinding them because it makes them feel better (in more than one way.)
 

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Originally posted by yesterday_nothing
lol, ok cool thanks! I'm just coming out of AFC stage and I'm kind of discovering all this stuff for the first time!

So um... what do you do if she goes to the bathroom or something and your trousers look like a tent?!
no offence mate, but im having a crack down now on guys who tihnk they are all that. You are an AFC, and thats good because stage 1 is accepting that, you must accept that before you chance and because you have taken the 1st step on to the mountain to being a DJ, so you are basicly still in the bracket of AFC now dont let this disincourage you, its a good start but people should realise being a DJ takes more then 1 week of reading posts on here. It takes a very long time and you cna always improve.
 

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Originally posted by yesterday_nothing
So um... what do you do if she goes to the bathroom or something and your trousers look like a tent?!
you know you can buy bags to put your tent in, if you plan to go camping afterwards. You do not have to keep the tent in your trousers! :p
 

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Originally posted by yesterday_nothing
Hi guys,

I'm just wondering about grinding. Are you meant to er... get "aroused" when you're doing it?

Someone told me you are, but all I can think is the girl would think that's disgusting! I've always ejected during grinding because I can feel an erection coming on!

Please help!!
Imagine how you would feel if a girl you like was rubbing her boobs and butt against you, and grinding on you.

Same for her, unless she has a low IL (but if she did, would she even be grinding with you in the first place?)
 

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And I wouldn't say that he's THAT much of an AFC. Most AFC's won't even "grind" with girls. So he's got SOME sense of adventure in him.

Well... Unless he's doing it because girls tell him to... that's not the case, right?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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are u trying to hide ur sexuality?
i believe in the no shame attitude, u do what u feel u wanna do and have no shame, humility can only be in humour and never serious.

i mean **** if u blew ur nose on the bus and had a booger stuck on the innerside of ur nose, wow big deal, its not like people shud be starin at u in teh first place,
sexuality is nothing at all wrong, enjoy it while u can before u NEED viagra.
 

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Let me put it this way.

If you don't get a boner from grinding with a girl, you're either: 1) 50 years old and impotent, or 2) gay.

BGMan
 

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Next time your grinding a girl, don't back up when you start to get hard, and watch as she starts to grind closer as soon as she starts to feel a poke coming through.

Didn't Next make a song about this, that was a funny azz song: "Step back I feel alittle poke coming thru...on you" "Girl I know you felt it, and girl you know I can't help it, you know what I waaaanna doo!" Hahaha!

Mr. Mystery
 

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yESTERDAY, ARE YOU A GUY OR A GIRL. I GRINDED MY GIRLS, ALL THEREE OF THEM I'VE BEEN WITH SAY SHE LOVED IT. MY FIRST GF DIDN'T WANT ME TO STOP, CAUS SHE GETS SO HORNY LIKE CRAZY. IT DOES MAKE GIRLS HORNY BECAUSE YOUR HARD D*CK IS GRINDING AGAINST HER ****.
 

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Originally posted by Ladiesssman
yESTERDAY, ARE YOU A GUY OR A GIRL.
A girl with an erection?

:eek:
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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Originally posted by Ladiesssman
yESTERDAY, ARE YOU A GUY OR A GIRL. I GRINDED MY GIRLS, ALL THEREE OF THEM I'VE BEEN WITH SAY SHE LOVED IT.
I think the past tense of "grind" is GROUND.

BGMan
 

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Just one little thing; remember to switch it up to front grind; so that you two are face to face and grind the hell outta her, return the favor. You can get a girl pretty worked up right there and go from there...
 

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To be honest I don't think girls usually notice. I've noticed maybe once and I dance all the time.
 

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yea, when u grind front to front, keep ur focus on her eyes, it'll create alot more tension.
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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