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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

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C&F and the kiss

Ian1983

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just a quick question;

when your going in for the kiss for the first time to guage IL ('something in your hair', move in, lift chin, basic kino, then move in for the kiss iteslef), should you go straight in, or would some C&F completely ruin any chances

when I'm thinking C&F, i' thinking, after touching the face, if I were to say sometihng along the lines of

'if your going to knee me, let me know now'
the idea is to get a smile and definate confermation (particular girl I'm going to do this on hasn't pulled back last time I got within nose touching distance, but at that time I wasn't interested and jokingly called her a *****)

slight humour, but...........would that be just BAD (ie as your moving in, stop, say it, and get response and continue to move in)
 

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i've actually pretty recently come right out and said.

"can i kiss you?"

lol, thank god the answer was.. "duh!"
 

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why did you do this? yeh i know 1 of the great DJ newsletter tips recomended it but you really should not say this.

if you must then just say to her kiss me, or somthing like that, but never ask weather or not you can.
 

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Originally posted by check_mate_kid_uk
why did you do this? yeh i know 1 of the great DJ newsletter tips recomended it but you really should not say this.

if you must then just say to her kiss me, or somthing like that, but never ask weather or not you can.
i know, i had no idea what was going through my head, she was just laying down on the couch, her head in my lap and i asked.. "can i kiss you"

:eek: next time i'll play it more smooth
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

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you no what could be a good idea, say, in a sexy voice, as you are aobut to go in for a kiss "im going to kiss you now"
 

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Originally posted by squirrels
There's a time to play games and there's a time to shut up and kiss. :p

I think too much I'm told


no C&F, if she hasn't recoiled, my mouth is shut (the first time anyway)
 
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