-

Moved to The Mature Man.

Originally posted by KnightRyder
Now that I am post-college I want to be able to have that access to socials in college to get another chance, what are ways for a post-graduate to get into parties and stuff at college and to try to talk to college women of which college I don't goto and try to befriend "college girls" ?

Click to expand...

I would recomend not living in the past. Your not in college anymore so why pretend like you are? Learn from your mistakes and move on with your life and make every day the best it can be.

Well....alot of colleges have night classes for "enrichment". You know, wine tasting, how to do your taxes, desktop publishing and the like. This will get you back on campus. Can you take it from there?

Look at this as an opportunity! Why not go back to college for a masters? This justifies being older and gets their respect right away. Then, all you have to do is get involved. Everyone in college is open to something new when the semester begins. Women/girls are no exception.

You can use your age to a great advantage. Girls will come to you for advice and then you can turn the game around on them by telling them that a counselor is available through student health services, free of charge. You can assist them with distraction from the problem, but you don't ever try to solve their problems.

Oh, wait! Read that again! Yes. It's true! They DO have problems at that age. Lots of dramatics going on. You sure you want to see a college girl?

Get your teachers credentials.

Out of curiosity, is there a specific reason for your interest in college other than recapturing the past? Like Vincent said, you're not in college anymore. Yeah, you can re-enroll but doing it just to meet women is a bit lame.

If you truly want to better yourself, go for it. Then you can capitalize on your current student status. It will be difficult to understand and appreciate where you are right now if you spend your efforts on trying to capture a moment that has already come and gone.

Hey guys, relax will ya. I am only 23 years old.

Just enroll in some classes! I knew plenty of older guys who did that and got plenty of action. Everyone knew why they were there, and ... well... do I need to spell it out?

Go to grad school. You are no longer their peers, so forget about trying to pretend that you are. First, if you go to frat parties and try to act like a drunk 18 year old you will look like an idiot. However, it is to your advantage that you are no longer in their peer group. Many of these women want to date a slightly older, more sophisticated and worldly gentleman such as yourself rather than those immature drunk frat boys.
You are an intelligent grad student who is a calibere above a frat boy, play it up to the max. Also, many times if you are in a graduate program, you are in an instructional position. True, you do not want to be their therapist, but if you are tutoring them or teaching them in some way, many women develop a very powerful attraction to someone in this position without you even trying.
Don't just get a graduate degree to meet women, but in most cases a graduate degree will help you out in your career anyway, so you are killing two birds with one stone here.

I'm pretty sure you have to enroll, pay tuition, buy books and attend classes. Oh yeah, you have to drink a lot of beer.

Unless they've changed things lately...

Gipper

Get a job!!!

Seriously, colleges need everything from groundskeepers to computer nerds, not to mention accountants and doctors.