OK, here's the situation. I've been going out with this girl for about 3 months and we've been having awesome sex the whole time. Last night we said the L-word for the first time (something I've never said to any other girl and don't really want advice on). I was a little hesitant... Last night when we had sex I couldn't cvm and today when she gave me head I couldn't even stay up! This has NEVER happened to me before, and it could definitely screw up our relationship. I smoke weed regularly but it has never caused this problem before.

My question: has anything of this sort ever happened to anyone else? Any suggestions on what I should do? My current plan is to not have sex for a couple days and see if that fixes the problem, and if that doesn't work I'm going to quit smoking. How much effect can psychological stuff have on my tool, anyway? Please help me out.

Too much smoking, too much jerking and stress and pressure.

You must be smokin some weak stuff. Weed always makes me horny and never has an effect on my "willy". Its probably because she said the "L word" to you. She has just killed all the attraction. How do you love someone after 3 months? How old are you anyway?