This is a tip journal that I will post all of my posts going over different ideas and different tactics that I used. I hope you enjoy this but don't expect to much out of this considering that my tip starting is not as good as I would like because I am not as good a writer as Pook or Fingz but I do try

Become aware

I made this post up awhile ago but it is important none the less.

I was at Knoebels amusement park. And I came across this tip. Just become aware of everything. I used to walk around slumped over but I walk up right now. I just looked around with a smile on my face and I said hello to a bunch of girls and one out of every 5 girls did not flirt with me or look at me seductively. So the tip here guys is.

Keep your eyes open and you would be suprised at how many opportunities you let go if you don't keep your eyes peeled

Popularity and how I think it is attained

Popularity is hard to get if you don't know how but if you know how it is easy. Being on a sports team did help a little but that isn't that big of a deal because most of my friends are not on baseball team.

rules for becoming popular
RULE NUMBER 1 and this is the most important. Be true to yourself.
If you are not true to yourself and buy some type of clothes like you could wear ghetto clothes and buy an abercrombe will it make you look good in front of the preps. Hell No!!! You will look like a poser. One kid I know is a big poser and my friends let him hang out with us but behind his back everyone makes fun of him.

2.) You make your own flow
You do what you want to do. DON'T let any one tell you how to live. You are the ultimate decision on how you live your life

3.) If you make enemies like you used the ghetto kids and I have been enemies with them before.
I was in an almost war with the ghetto kids by where I live. I was threatened to be knifed and shot up. I held one against the locker because he was going to jump another one of my friends and told him if he messes with any of my friends I will destroy him. He gained fear and respect for me that day. I then befriended the ghetto kids to be my friends.

4.) Have a specialty that every one can relate to. I have some real good jerky recipe that I don't share with anyone but I give the jerky away. People That I don't even know are given a little piece of it from a friend and they love it and they seek me out for some more and I become friends with them.(sorry for the run on sentance) and no they just don't like me for the jerky because they still hang out with me when the jerky is all gone. Plus it helps meet girls too .

5.) Become friends with everyone.
It makes my job alot easier if you

6.) personality traits
respectful to other peoples stuff (religion, clothes, whatever)
resourceful (jerky to meet people including girls)
taking chances on things
trusting
relaxing (I can cross barriers so easily because people can't detect my class i.e. prep, jock, ghetto, whatever. Although I am a mix of everything I wear the prep clothes)
Knowledge is power
humor
money does nothing for you because people will talk behind your back.
just enjoy everything you do

And in conclusion the same things that are on this board pretty much is the same way I use to gain popularity(I didn't even know I was using techniques of the DJ to gain popularity. D'oh I could have been getting girls too). That is what the board is about being yoru own man. Don't do illegal sh!t anyways. It is better to go to college than in a cell with bubba in prison. Do good in school and get a job that pays more then 100k per year or doing something you want. In fact after high school all of the cool guys are pumping the gas while you pull up your pimp mobile with the hunnies on your side. Flashing $100 bills.(note: don't do that either) who would you want to be the gas station or the man who is with the women? You decide. My decision is made.

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A few tips for getting over the approach

Rejection is something very hard to get over when you first begin DJ'ing because most of you were probably just an Chump, who did nothing with women. (This is just a generalization. You might have been a DJ before you came here and only wanted to refine your skills but I am speaking mostly to the former of the chumps) Rejection was not hard to get over if you know how.
First off, approach, approach, approach. If you approach you will get rid of the fear of rejection. You also might get a date or two with this idea of just having fun.
I went in one week I approached 5 women to break my own fear of this. I just decided that I wanted to not be afraid of rejection of it anymore. I did 5 approaches and got 2 different girls (see my field report for more info on my 5 approaches
school dance

but I hear this "I'm afraid" (synonym for afraid is fear)
I say to my friend "What do you have to fear"
Him: "But it will hurt and I don't know what I am doing"
Me: "You just need confidence and your scared that it will hurt. Alright first to gain confidence. Approach, Approach, Approach. You need to start somewhere to gain confidence. You are letting fear. Fear of not getting hurt. Here is a question for you. Would you rather get hurt only for awhile by getting rejected or would you rather die on your deathbed with regret? That little fact scared me ****less because I am regretting all those years that I did not approach."
Him: "But she won't think I am good lookin"
Me: "If you think that you are attractive you will become attractive. As you think you shall become"
Him: "But what will everyone else think."
Me: "Show me anyone who cares about you other than your family and friends. I don't see any of your friends here and I am your only friend that is here. You won't even see her again probably so I would you care."
Him: Making more excuses
Me: "Stop making excuses and approach or you will never have a chance."
Girl gone awhile ago. Chances also disappear with that person

My tips
1.) approach, approach, approach.
2.)tip one will let you conquer fear and once you control your fear. You control your mind. Once you control your mind. You control everything else in your body.
3.) If you don't look good. Improve your looks
4.) No one gives two ****s about what you do in the mall, plus the chances of seeing her after she rejects is that you won't ever see you again so her point of view will never matter again either
5.) Tip one will let you die on your deathbed content for the fact that you tried to do everything that could and wouldn't die with regret because so something you didn't do. Don't forget that most people laugh at the stuff they did stupid or not but hate the stuff that they didn't do.

Now there is some reasons and tips on how to handle approaching. I don't want to hear anyone ***** about not having a date when they never approached to begin with.

Laziness=Masterbation