It is OK to persue women, you just got take it cool and confident. Both stalkers and players persue women. But the stalkers scare the hell out of them and get no pvssy when players are drowning in it.

Stalkers are anti-social, and usally persue one girl at a time.
Players have many girls and are very social. They make the girls compete for them.

Stalkers are scared around girls and alpha men.
Players are very confortable around all women, and are usally alpha men.

Stalkers care and dream way too much about the woman/women they stalk.
Players care about themselves first.

It is also important to remember that women mimic your emotions. If you are talking to a girl, and you are scared and unconfortable, she will be scared and unconfortable! If you are confident and confortable, so will she be! It is very important to reliease that they way you feel at that very moment is the way she feels.

That is all.