Like Duke Method, this is my original work. Like Duke Method, I wrote it to help ME, but I know it will benefit a lot of people. So without further ado, here it is.
I'm sitting here with an erection from doing what? Not from watching a women turn up her nose and blow out a guy. Not from her snotty attitude and big scowl on her face. Not from her complete apathy to a guy.
NO! The reason I'm sitting here all horny is because I've been watching chicks do the craziest, most ****ed-up sexual **** possible... repeatedly... and almost with no control of what they are doing. They are simply encapsulated by the moment. The chick moans in pleasure and rebellion and smirks as some guy spreads her asscheeks and slides his c0ck up her ass. She parts her legs wider to accomodate him and looks back at him and bites her lip with a look of respect mischief.
CHICKS ARE PROGRAMMED BY SOCIETY TO NOT WANT SEX. Of course, this crashes head on with their biological drives to take it up the ass
. So what's going on here? Which side will win? Society or biology?
Well of course biology will win every fukking time! Whenever passion overtakes them, chicks become slaves to the moment... they are not in their "proper" state of mind, and they will do ANYTHING if they are ****ing horny enough to do it.
So in order to help BIOLOGY win, what you must do is tap into their biological drives. All this amounts to is gaining her trust, isolating her, getting her horny, and escalating kino, . Miss a beat, and you will lose. Get them all and you will win.
Gaining her trust is a must if you even want to walk through the front door. Show her that you are a cool guy, be playful and confident, but above all else, please BE CONGRUENT. If you are not congruent with your first impression of who you portray yourself to be, then she will send you into the folder in her mind labelled "faker", and you will never hear from her again. Time and again, I've blown myself out by being incongruent. You only have to be congruent for each chick. Don't feel the need to maintain ONE image for all chicks. For one chick, you might be a laidback, super-intelligent and witty guy. BE CONGRUENT with that image when you are around her. For another chick, you might be the total party-man, playing the host and cracking up entire groups of people. Again, I can not stress this enough: BE CONGRUENT. Guys, if you can't gain her trust, then she WILL NOT **** you no matter how much attraction there is. She might think you're a really, really hot guy, but unfortunately you JUST MIGHT be some crazy serial killer rapist who puts on an act to attract women. Show her that she is wrong by being your (best) self around her and STICKING TO IT. If you were CF to begin with (=willingness to walk), then maintain the frame. You are never her *****, you are always willing to walk, and your value outweighs hers, plain and simple. BELIEVE this, because it is true.
But Duke, isn't it GOOD to be UNPREDICTABLE?
Yes! Vary your behavior and make her guess what you will do next. Ever wonder why people have gambling addictions? It is because they love the emotional rollercoaster. Sometimes they win, sometimes they lose, but their outcome is almost always determined by totally random factors. Doesn't it make sense for them to quit if they keep losing? Yes, it does! But do they? Nope! They keep going and await their next emotional high. When people KNOW that they can get something, they no longer work hard to get it. If you bombard her with validation from out of nowhere and never turn the faucet off, she will take you for granted. However, if you turn the faucet on and off at random times, she will be FASCINATED and try to figure out how to get more validation, and she will stick around for a long time. The trick is to never fully validate her.
But being incongruent is something that you DO NOT WANT TO BE, trust me. It is different from being unpredictable, here's why: If you are being incongruent, then you are not living up to what you first telecasted to the girl. She will think that you are "weird" or "fake" or "trying too hard." To be congruent, you must WALK THE WALK. Congruence concerns identity. Be congruent with your established identity. You can be unpredictable by varying your behaviors, but ALL of your varying behaviors MUST be congruent with your established identity, or else it's game over. PERIOD.
After you gain her trust, the next step is to isolate her. Have some excuse to get alone other than "let's go ****." As I have realized too many times, verbalizing the sexual game is a major no-no! More on that later. Any excuse will do, but it's best if it's tailored to her somehow (or at least she thinks it is). This is because she will believe that you are genuinely interested in her and that you don't have a 'routine' that you pull on all chicks to get them back to your place. It will make her feel like you value her as more than a piece of ass, and she will actually believe you! Perhaps you found a poem that reminds you of her. Or she likes beer and you have a "periodic table of mixology" poster. Or she's a horror-film buff and you have every episode of Friday the 13th. If you can't think of anything personalized, then something general will do if you have gained her trust and have good rapport. Or perhaps you have to go back to her place to show her a special skill, like the art of massage or how to open beer-bottles with your arm. Telling her you're hungry should work as well if she has food at her place. Whatever. If the girl is into you, then she will be receptive to isolation with you. If you're at a public venue, isolate her outside the crowd and into a private area. Tell her that it's too noisy and that you have something special to tell her.
Just remember that if you don't isolate her, then she WILL NOT **** you. Girls are deathly afraid that someone will think she is a slut. I've called girls sluts jokingly and it triggers an ASD mechanism so powerful that it overrides any playful vibe that we had going and completely breaks rapport. Indicating verbally in ANY WAY that you think she's a slut or an easy lay will trigger massive ASD and kick you in the balls. She will become cold to you and often angry.
Obviously she will not give up the puzzy if a bunch of other people are standing around gawking. She must not let the public see her slutty side! She will reveal her inner slut to you, but you must NEVER judge her for it. You must never verbalize the sexual game you are both playing. At times you'll get ****y (this has happened to me), and you will be tempted to verbalize the sexual game. You'll want to say "You're leaning over to show me your tits," or "You're walking that way to accentuate your ass" or "Why are you licking your lips around me?"
BAD, BAD, BAD. Half of the **** they are doing is subconscious. They don't even KNOW that they are licking their lips or whatever. DON'T TALK ABOUT IT. If you do, she'll believe you are an arrogant ******* who believes she's a slut. It's just nature at work; let it be. Recognize these things for what they are:IOIs. Then get her horny, and escalate kino.
To get her horny, project sexual state. I stripped this straight out of GWM, so props to Gunwitch. Never EVER EVER verbalize your sexual intentions to her as this will make you seem lame and desparate. But project your intentions (and they should be crystal clear) through your body language... the way you look at her, your voice tone...deep, relaxed eyes that look right into hers as you talk to her. Relaxed BL, taking up space. Smiling when needed, but never too much. Personally I wouldn't reccomend projecting sexual state RIGHT OFF THE BAT, as this has gotten me called a "weirdo" because I had not yet gained her trust. So I just came off as a creepy perv. Maybe I did it wrong? GWM sexual state off the bat work for anyone consistently? You can project sexual state way before you isolate her, but you must first gain her trust... as you get some rapport going, just keep escalating the sexual vibe.
You must kino her. Show that you are comfortable touching girls. If she gives you kino FIRST, then the floodgates are open. If she doesn't, then kino her from time to time and see how she responds. If she responds well, keep escalating. DO NOT LOOK AT YOUR HANDS when you go to kino her. You will draw attention to the kino and it will seem premeditated an unnatural. Jut be cool and touch her with no fear and no hesitation. Human beings HUNGER for touch. Literally, physical human contact releases endorphins that make you happy. People want to be touched. You just have to first gain their trust (this seems to be an oft overlooked aspect of seduction.... it's different from rapport, which establishes that you have common interests with someone..the girl must TRUST you on more personal level to let you touch them.
Subtly project sexual state (through BL) all the while performing kino. If she trusts you, she's isolated, you got her horny through sexual state projection, and you escalated kino (on a more and more intimate level), then you should have very little trouble getting a lay.
Questions, comments?
Duke
I'm sitting here with an erection from doing what? Not from watching a women turn up her nose and blow out a guy. Not from her snotty attitude and big scowl on her face. Not from her complete apathy to a guy.
NO! The reason I'm sitting here all horny is because I've been watching chicks do the craziest, most ****ed-up sexual **** possible... repeatedly... and almost with no control of what they are doing. They are simply encapsulated by the moment. The chick moans in pleasure and rebellion and smirks as some guy spreads her asscheeks and slides his c0ck up her ass. She parts her legs wider to accomodate him and looks back at him and bites her lip with a look of respect mischief.
CHICKS ARE PROGRAMMED BY SOCIETY TO NOT WANT SEX. Of course, this crashes head on with their biological drives to take it up the ass
. So what's going on here? Which side will win? Society or biology?Well of course biology will win every fukking time! Whenever passion overtakes them, chicks become slaves to the moment... they are not in their "proper" state of mind, and they will do ANYTHING if they are ****ing horny enough to do it.
So in order to help BIOLOGY win, what you must do is tap into their biological drives. All this amounts to is gaining her trust, isolating her, getting her horny, and escalating kino, . Miss a beat, and you will lose. Get them all and you will win.
Gaining her trust is a must if you even want to walk through the front door. Show her that you are a cool guy, be playful and confident, but above all else, please BE CONGRUENT. If you are not congruent with your first impression of who you portray yourself to be, then she will send you into the folder in her mind labelled "faker", and you will never hear from her again. Time and again, I've blown myself out by being incongruent. You only have to be congruent for each chick. Don't feel the need to maintain ONE image for all chicks. For one chick, you might be a laidback, super-intelligent and witty guy. BE CONGRUENT with that image when you are around her. For another chick, you might be the total party-man, playing the host and cracking up entire groups of people. Again, I can not stress this enough: BE CONGRUENT. Guys, if you can't gain her trust, then she WILL NOT **** you no matter how much attraction there is. She might think you're a really, really hot guy, but unfortunately you JUST MIGHT be some crazy serial killer rapist who puts on an act to attract women. Show her that she is wrong by being your (best) self around her and STICKING TO IT. If you were CF to begin with (=willingness to walk), then maintain the frame. You are never her *****, you are always willing to walk, and your value outweighs hers, plain and simple. BELIEVE this, because it is true.
But Duke, isn't it GOOD to be UNPREDICTABLE?
Yes! Vary your behavior and make her guess what you will do next. Ever wonder why people have gambling addictions? It is because they love the emotional rollercoaster. Sometimes they win, sometimes they lose, but their outcome is almost always determined by totally random factors. Doesn't it make sense for them to quit if they keep losing? Yes, it does! But do they? Nope! They keep going and await their next emotional high. When people KNOW that they can get something, they no longer work hard to get it. If you bombard her with validation from out of nowhere and never turn the faucet off, she will take you for granted. However, if you turn the faucet on and off at random times, she will be FASCINATED and try to figure out how to get more validation, and she will stick around for a long time. The trick is to never fully validate her.
But being incongruent is something that you DO NOT WANT TO BE, trust me. It is different from being unpredictable, here's why: If you are being incongruent, then you are not living up to what you first telecasted to the girl. She will think that you are "weird" or "fake" or "trying too hard." To be congruent, you must WALK THE WALK. Congruence concerns identity. Be congruent with your established identity. You can be unpredictable by varying your behaviors, but ALL of your varying behaviors MUST be congruent with your established identity, or else it's game over. PERIOD.
After you gain her trust, the next step is to isolate her. Have some excuse to get alone other than "let's go ****." As I have realized too many times, verbalizing the sexual game is a major no-no! More on that later. Any excuse will do, but it's best if it's tailored to her somehow (or at least she thinks it is
). This is because she will believe that you are genuinely interested in her and that you don't have a 'routine' that you pull on all chicks to get them back to your place. It will make her feel like you value her as more than a piece of ass, and she will actually believe you! Perhaps you found a poem that reminds you of her. Or she likes beer and you have a "periodic table of mixology" poster. Or she's a horror-film buff and you have every episode of Friday the 13th. If you can't think of anything personalized, then something general will do if you have gained her trust and have good rapport. Or perhaps you have to go back to her place to show her a special skill, like the art of massage or how to open beer-bottles with your arm. Telling her you're hungry should work as well if she has food at her place. Whatever. If the girl is into you, then she will be receptive to isolation with you. If you're at a public venue, isolate her outside the crowd and into a private area. Tell her that it's too noisy and that you have something special to tell her.Just remember that if you don't isolate her, then she WILL NOT **** you. Girls are deathly afraid that someone will think she is a slut. I've called girls sluts jokingly and it triggers an ASD mechanism so powerful that it overrides any playful vibe that we had going and completely breaks rapport. Indicating verbally in ANY WAY that you think she's a slut or an easy lay will trigger massive ASD and kick you in the balls. She will become cold to you and often angry.
Obviously she will not give up the puzzy if a bunch of other people are standing around gawking. She must not let the public see her slutty side! She will reveal her inner slut to you, but you must NEVER judge her for it. You must never verbalize the sexual game you are both playing. At times you'll get ****y (this has happened to me), and you will be tempted to verbalize the sexual game. You'll want to say "You're leaning over to show me your tits," or "You're walking that way to accentuate your ass" or "Why are you licking your lips around me?"
BAD, BAD, BAD. Half of the **** they are doing is subconscious. They don't even KNOW that they are licking their lips or whatever. DON'T TALK ABOUT IT. If you do, she'll believe you are an arrogant ******* who believes she's a slut. It's just nature at work; let it be. Recognize these things for what they are:IOIs. Then get her horny, and escalate kino.
To get her horny, project sexual state. I stripped this straight out of GWM, so props to Gunwitch. Never EVER EVER verbalize your sexual intentions to her as this will make you seem lame and desparate. But project your intentions (and they should be crystal clear) through your body language... the way you look at her, your voice tone...deep, relaxed eyes that look right into hers as you talk to her. Relaxed BL, taking up space. Smiling when needed, but never too much. Personally I wouldn't reccomend projecting sexual state RIGHT OFF THE BAT, as this has gotten me called a "weirdo" because I had not yet gained her trust. So I just came off as a creepy perv. Maybe I did it wrong? GWM sexual state off the bat work for anyone consistently? You can project sexual state way before you isolate her, but you must first gain her trust... as you get some rapport going, just keep escalating the sexual vibe.
You must kino her. Show that you are comfortable touching girls. If she gives you kino FIRST, then the floodgates are open. If she doesn't, then kino her from time to time and see how she responds. If she responds well, keep escalating. DO NOT LOOK AT YOUR HANDS when you go to kino her. You will draw attention to the kino and it will seem premeditated an unnatural. Jut be cool and touch her with no fear and no hesitation. Human beings HUNGER for touch. Literally, physical human contact releases endorphins that make you happy. People want to be touched. You just have to first gain their trust (this seems to be an oft overlooked aspect of seduction.... it's different from rapport, which establishes that you have common interests with someone..the girl must TRUST you on more personal level to let you touch them.
Subtly project sexual state (through BL) all the while performing kino. If she trusts you, she's isolated, you got her horny through sexual state projection, and you escalated kino (on a more and more intimate level), then you should have very little trouble getting a lay.
Questions, comments?
Duke