i work from 8am-4:30pm, monday-friday and prefer to use my weekends to get numbers or whatever. i've read the threads in the bible of all the possible dates, ect... what are good first dates during the evening, and if possible if it ends up raining or whatever?

my favourite first dates are going to the mall, but they close early here. i like the park/walk dates, but what if it rains? i'd do the coffee shop date, but i date teenagers and half of them don't find coffee appealing.

that leaves movies and dinner dates. i personally think movie dates are dumb for first dates, because you don't get to talk with them much. dinner dates are good, but i also don't like them as first dates because you're blowing money on them and it's like you're bribing them with dinner to go out with you.

that doesn't leave much... maybe you guys could share with me your FAVOURITE first date scenario's? where do you go, what do you do, ect? preferably stuff during the evening, because i'm sure most of you have jobs with similar schedules as i do.

another question is, what're the boundaries of where you'll date a girl? i go to downtown vancouver to the malls ect, and meet women. however, that is like 30 mins away from where i live, and it usually ends them living farther away. so, how far away will you date girls? i find it hard as hell to find ones within my tiny town.

in my opinion, first date is usually good to just keep it simple as possible, have a casual cup of coffee, illicit values, C+F, make her enjoy your prescence, and cut it short to leave her hanging for more.

As for the evening, i'm not too sure what you can do. movies probably not too good for first dates because nothing gets said --- so you're right there.

Where i live there are some nice classy joints that serve pancakes or chocolate or whatever till late at night with open fireplaces etc blah blah blah, if you have something similar you could go there. (note: choc = meant to release the same endorphins as sex i think, i heard that from somewhere, heh)

secondly --> the boundary thing pisses me off --- the closer a girl lives the better. Where i live, suburbs are usually 10 - 20mins drive from each other, so its manageable.... but anything past like an hours drive is just too troublesome, unless she comes to you.

Originally posted by Tempest
i'd do the coffee shop date, but i date teenagers and half of them don't find coffee appealing.

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Dude you are a bad, bad man.

ever watch elimidate/blind date etc. There are lots of dating shows.... anywho...

Where do they go? watch and learn.

It's not about where you go, it's about who you are with. So do something you can impress her with, something you are good at or know alot about.

My favorite is indoor rock climbing. Kino is a must here.

go get your fortunes told. provides hour of convo afterwords
workout together. if you know your way around a gym
hiking if you know your way around the woods
pool
bowling



Even if you are not so good at it, its shows that you are outgoing, but just be sure to keep a sense of humor

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Originally posted by California Love
Dude you are a bad, bad man.

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i'm 18. i date 16+, nothing wrong with that in my book.

thanks for the great suggestions. i think i will attempt the coffee thing, though. just find a local starbucks or whatever and chat her up. those frappachino's from starbucks are awesome, anyways. she probably hasn't heard of or tried half of the drinks that starbucks has to offer.. so maybe i can recommend and make her try something NEW and have a new and exciting experience.

another thing is the pool which was recommended. great idea. i love pool, and i can find a local pool hall. i also was planning on getting into pool and getting some skill at it.

thanks. let me know if i'm missing out on any other great ideas.