hi fellas
now a lot of the information on this site is directed at attracting the more confident girls who are you used to being hit on, and how you can make urself different and stand out to your benefit. now i'm all for this, however, when i went out clubbing with my friends, we met up with a group of girls. now admittedly most of them were boring as hell, and constantly whipped out their mobile phones and starting mucking around with that, as opposed to holding a conversation. (they then later complained that us guys were insocial! lol)
but at anyrate, can we start up another thread aimed more at attracting the quieter girls?

i found, that after some alcohol, i was pretty good copmany (in my eyes anyway ) but i was just looking for some more advice onthe topic
cheers

IMO there is no difference between 'nice'girls and more confident girls. ANY girl is attracted to a MAN. No matter what. Well, except for maybe the lesbian girls

Anyway.. making yourself confident strong and positive towards life will make anyone attracted. And then when you HAVE the girl, don't slack because confessing to her your weaknesses and fears will not make her love you more. It will put doubts in her head no matter what she says.

The only difference probably is that nice girls need more compliments (carefull with those, don't overdo) and no NEG hits. Personally I don't believe in neg-hits anyway. Just be ****y & funny and you can be that even with nice insecure girls, just as long as you make it come off as a joke.

i use neg hits, they are great, you just have to make sure its understood as a joke, rather then being mean so say them in a playfull way.

The quiet girls are not often the centre of attention, often guys who are talking to them will be checking out the hotties that are walking by. They don't draw attention to themselves and are often overlooked.

When you talk to the quiet girls, make them the centre of attention. Don't scope all the other women that happen to walk past your field of view. Look the quiet girl in the eye when you are talking to them... don't be creepy though, it is ok to break eye contact on a regular basis, you don't have to stare them down. Apart from that, flirt with them as you would any other girl.

Let her know she has your full attention and that on some subconscious level, she is lucky to have it. Be different to the other guys by not drooling over the popular girls with the D-cups.

Cheers

Originally posted by Caveman
IMO there is no difference between 'nice'girls and more confident girls. ANY girl is attracted to a MAN. No matter what. Well, except for maybe the lesbian girls

Anyway.. making yourself confident strong and positive towards life will make anyone attracted. And then when you HAVE the girl, don't slack because confessing to her your weaknesses and fears will not make her love you more. It will put doubts in her head no matter what she says.

The only difference probably is that nice girls need more compliments (carefull with those, don't overdo) and no NEG hits. Personally I don't believe in neg-hits anyway. Just be ****y & funny and you can be that even with nice insecure girls, just as long as you make it come off as a joke.

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you need less confidence with nice girl than with hotties ... the hotter the women the more masculine you have to be

Originally posted by Caveman
IMO there is no difference between 'nice'girls and more confident girls.

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I disagree. According to the owner of the site www.howtogetgirls.com Aurthur Gordon there are 3 types of women. Good girls. Freaks, and Ho's

Good girls are the nice girls who typically are shy.
Freaks are the hb10's you see running around who collect men as a hobby
Ho's are the ones who use men for money and dinner and trips and marry men with money.

I do know that each relationship that you develop with be one of 3 catagories:

1. emotional. You or the woman will be in it for emotional support or love and this is what good girls repsond too.

2. Sexual. Either you or the girl will be into it for sex. And this is where you will find your freaks. They only wanna fawk. And get attention from men. They don't care about emotional shyt or the money...they need male attention and sex.

3. Financial. This one is obvious. They will be with you cause you make a lot of money or have potential to earn big money later on.

When you determine which type your dealing with it will determine how you approach and handle each one.

All women are not the same in their basic characteristic typing.

Player_Supreme:

I understand what you are saying. All I am saying is that all girls are attracted to the confident type of guy in the end. Meaning that you don't start acting like a little girlfriend when you are with a 'nice'girl. They are looking for a strong independant guy just like the HB's are.

I do realize not all girls are alike.

Seems to me that nice girls are MORE receptive to a masculine, confident guy (a REAL man, not some idiot using a ton of techniques he memorized) because more feminine girls want more masculine guys.

well i know that i'm starting to treat this more as a game
and i'm starting to abandon my hopeless romantic ideals
at least for the moment

at anyrate, i think i'm more attracted tot eh sshy girls because they're more on my level
from my experience, this ****y+funny routine is great
i was on fire for a while, and had the group laughing, which was great
but i didn't use any negative hits, which also kept the sortta morale of the group up

my friends are also much funnier once they loosen up whether by means of alcohol or good mood