Alright guys, i know there's a thread abt blown come ons, but how many of you acutally screwed up a chance to get some booty because of something you said or did? And what lesson did you learn from it. I'm sure this would prove valuable for all here. Here's mine..

I had some sought of a ONS with this rather attractive chick. But i think she felt rather bad abt that night due to a misunderstanding bet us. SO i was patient and tried to get her to open up again. One day we were talking abt sex and she mentioned that she's capable of giving good sex. And my million dollar reply "I've yet to experience that acually" Geez. That pissed her off. Suffice to say, it was gone for good. I know my ego can be TOO big for my own good at times. And i'm making it a point to keep it in check esp when broaching sensitive topics with women. You cant be C/F all the time yah?

Trust me, i'm still kicking myself hard over this lost chance.

So whats yr story?

No offense but what I can't understand is why anyone would want to focus on negative things! What you focus on comes to you. Of course somebody is going to say so that we can learn from our mistakes....but the best thing to learn from are the positive things that worked, not the shyt that didn't.

Rehashing when you didn't score only increases the same.

This HB9 who was my 'cool' mates first ever LTR for like 3 years and he was hers came back from thailand for a while and i started seeing her about in the towns bars etc...anyway i would always chat to her - usualy about how cool i am and how girls love me and stuff and she would tell me im cool etc etc.

Anyway - it got to the "hey how are you gimmie a kiss and a hug" phase pretty quickly and one nite i was sitting at home having got her number of a mate...realy realy realy wanting to call her and see if she wanted to come out...but i chickened out...shed been out quite a bit and i suspetced that it would be overkill/she would have another plan for the nite and it would just be arquad...so i didnt call. Nite wears on and my phone rings..its her/

She doesnt know i have her number so i just say 'hello?' shes like 'hi Cdamage?' im like 'Oh Hi hotbird' .. impressed her with my voice recognition skills

Anyway she says 'hey come to the pub' im like..hmmm alrite...cya in a few.

I get there -

Sit down with HB9, my ex's best mate and her boyfriend (we all know each otehr from school). HB9 Gets up and STRADDLES MY LEG - full on straddalaage people! Leans in realy close to me with her gorgous hair falling all around our faces and whispers to me 'do you have any weed' ("shal we go outside and smoke some"). She was cms from my face...she is beutiful...shes straddling my leg. I just sit there and come out with some pseudo cool BS - like 'yeah wadda ya say you me, big spliff' or something....and didnt jam my toungue in her mouth.

so i slept alone that nite.

LAST NIGHT!! I was at the strip club and this woman... not my type but she came on to me so strong, she literaly just sat down next to me and put her hand on my private. I talked to her a wh ile and went to go shoot pool.

On my way out the door, she came up to me and grabbed me and sais "why are you leaving" I said I am going home and she said asked could she come with me. I think I made the right decision by saying I had to get up early the next morning, which is a lie, I just woke up at 1:00pm and leaving.