This girl is very very cute, rich, high maintenance, bar waitress and 19 and I'm 23. I just found out I lived behind her. We have a mutual friend and I know her roommate since she was in my fraternity's sister sorority and she was my "mom". So, today I go over their place and shoot the ****. It started off well, but then they thought I was hard to please because I said, "Whats so great about it?" referring to a new restaurant that just opened in town. Also, I told this girl that she seemed unapproachable and this definitely got to her. So much that she told our mutual friend later on tonite about it. Kinda funny if you ask me, because this is one high maintenance *****. She is very very cute though, as I said, but I definitely will not supplicate her, even if she resents me. I hate girls like this.

My friend (the mutual friend), myself , the high maintenance girl and her roommate went party hopping and not much dialogue occurred. I think she is still pissed at me. I gave her some eye contact every once in a while and she would hold it for like a second or two tops. so, dunno wtf her impression of me is now. I kinda wanna nail this chick because she intrigues me.

Side note, this girl lives directly behind me at college. Our mutual friend and I, not knowing her yet, went to spring break in Panama City, FL. Out of 150 hotels, she stayed 3 doors down from us in the hotel we stayed at when we were there, weird aye. Also, while there she was swimming naked and sunbathing topless (I didnt get to see it, my buddy did though ) So, she is somewhat of a spoiled wild child. she is kind of obsessed with clothes, shopping, sororities and fraternities and the bar scene.

What should I do?

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None of this sh*t matters, she is just like any other chick. Put her in the crosshairs and go for it.

thanks for the helpful and descriptive reply!

blienk is right.

If you treat her special or like she's better than other girls, she'll start acting like she's special and better than other girls. And in turn, you end up being her toy that she pulls out when she's bored and wants dinner.

You're too into the situation which says your interest is sky high and that's going to kill you in the end. You need the confidence to stay in the game without overanalyzing. As of right now, you don't seem to have any idea what you're doing with a girl and that reflects on your ideas on life. You need to man up and believe in yourself.

As for the chick, it doesn't matter who she is, what she does, or how much money she has. She's a girl that YOU are interested in. If she is interested in YOU, you will have a chance. If she isn't, then move on, grow old, find someone else. Don't waste your time with the jibber jabber.

So this is what you do, you see her outside some time. Talk to her for a minute or two, keep the convo light and funny, then ask,

"Hey, actually, I gotta run, write down your number, I'll call you."

If she rejects, she's not interested, nothing you can do, don't whine, don't cry, move on.

If you get the number, wait a week. You've got a life. You've got better things to do than sit around and call a girl that you got the number of yesterday. Call her a week later, and say,

"Hey, I'm free Wendesday night, let's go get a bite to eat, I'll pick you up at 7."

Keep it simple. Once again, if she rejects or gives you the runaround, she is not interested, give up. You aren't going to bang her unless you get her drunk and want some cops/ex-boyfriend/dad/brother on your ass afterwards. Deal with rejection, don't fear it.

The whole thing is basically this. You are trying to attract her, not pursue her. You let her see your slight interest without being overwhelming and see how she reacts. If she reacts positively and is interested in you, you're in. If she doesn't, then she isn't interested in you, go out to a bar and find some other chicks.

And yes, she's high maintenance, doesn't matter. Treat her like she's your kid sister and don't give in to her crap. Don't degrade yourself for some sex. Good luck.

You say your not going to supplicate to her but you already have by telling her:

"You seem unapproachable!!"

That short statement tells her that your intimidated by her for whatever reason (looks/attitude) and that already puts her in the driver's seat. Your waaay too into this chick already and I only see a big crash landing ahead unless you change your game plan.


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