I'm bored, so I'll fill you in on last night... For those of you who don't know, I'm a dancer in addition to being a college student. As it pays about 300/night, I can't complain. Anyway, last night my friend from work and I drove to a city nearby where we went to a mixed bar - a good number of straight girls and some gay guys. We'd been there 1 time before, and tips were pretty good, so we decided to go back... not to mention, last time we were there some absolutely stunning girls were putting dollars in their bras, panties, etc and having us take them out with our teeth. This time was no different. There was one girl with short pixie blonde hair, around 110 lbs or so (I don't care much for big girls) and a nice chest. Her friend wasn't as good looking, and I think she was actually probably bigger than me - which scares me.

As the night passed, and we danced on the bar, she kept trying to get us to come dance with her and her friend down on the main floor area. Finally, when it was about 145 or so, and the tips were slowing down, we went out there... I'd had a large amount to drink already so I wasn't really thinking too much about anything. After dancing so long in boxer-briefs, you sort of get the idea that you're running things, and if you want something, it's yours for the taking. We started dancing - all 4 of us, and I slipped my hand below her skirt and started rubbing... she practically threw her leg up onto my friend, then leaned back onto me and started moaning. Definitely a good reaction. We went on like this for about 15 minutes, then they asked if we had a place to stay that night. Since we were both pretty drunk, we didn't feel like driving home so we hopped in my car with blondie - whose name I later found out was Nancy - and followed her friend back to their apartment.

Once there, we went upstairs and the lights went out... Nancy and I were on the floor, and Nancy's roommate and my friend (poor guy, he got the ugly girl) were up on the bed. We didn't switch partners or anything (mainly I think because there was no attraction on my part for that other girl.. though being that drunk, I might have anyway..) and ended up having a good time. Instead of staying the night, though, me and him drove back to Baton Rouge, making it home at 5am. I had to be at work for 10am, so it's been a long day. Before I left, I got Nancy's cell number, which in hindsight was a rather good thing. See, the only problem with the night was that - even though I had condoms in the car - I never actually used any of them. Neither did my friend, although from what he said the big girl just gave him head.

From 10 until 5, when I got off, I've been worrying about if I had some sort of disease now... I sent the girl a text message a few minutes ago to the effect of "this is jeremy from last night.. no offense, but i need to know if you're clean". Her resonse... "well aside from this recurring rash that comes back every month, yep! just kidding, i'm clean as a whistle. and yourself?". Of course, I am. Though if I keep forgetting to put on protection, I guess I shouldn't expect to be clean much longer. Condoms are great, make sure you wear yours every time you play.

Anyway, that about wraps up my "field report". I don't know what good it is, other than for maybe giving someone something to read if they're as bored as I am writing it... I didn't use any DJ techniques, or really even any conversation. Then again, I guess that some did apply after all... I was up on the bar dancing in my underwear, which shows some serious confidence... I was having a good time, didn't care about anybody else's opinions of me, and when we went out dancing I went and did exactly what I wanted to do instead of working my way up to it through cards and flowers and crap. Okay, enough typing, I'm outta here. Cheers. Oh yeah. In addition to the ONS, I made 165 in tips - plus 80 from the bar for coming.

Nice thing about dancing is that it's an automatic DHV. Demonstration of Higher Value.

Some people use cars, magic tricks, or throw around cash to show higher social value. But dancing is one of the easiest (yet most difficult) of DHV techniques that a PUA can learn.

Couldn't you also argue that stripping - or dancing, as we're referring to it in this thread - lowers your value? It's rather hypocritical, but when my friends and I go to strip clubs on Bourbon St, I don't really think of the girls there as being all that classy. I'd have the same to hold true for people visiting that club that we were on the bar of dancing... Then again, I suppose by being "untouchable" so to speak, it may elevate value like you mentioned...

It's different for guys.

Dancing definitely attracts girls like flies to honey.

Even female strippers have a "mystique" about them.

Originally posted by JT47319
Nice thing about dancing is that it's an automatic DHV. Demonstration of Higher Value.

Some people use cars, magic tricks, or throw around cash to show higher social value. But dancing is one of the easiest (yet most difficult) of DHV techniques that a PUA can learn.

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I don't know about that. There are different "types" of dancing. This dude is a stripper. He dances in his shorts with his torso and legs exposed. He also dances on a stage, with the other girls seated/standing still, and just drooling at him. If I had my shirt off on a dance floor/stage under disco lights I think I'd get attention too. On a regular dance floor, there are lots of other guys and girls dancing, and the dude is not the center of attention.



If you're in a regular club environment where actually being dressed is mandatory, I wonder if the night would have panned out exactly as it did.



cheers,

Jake.

By the Bishop, I'm not knocking your profession. Just keep doin your thing.

Yes it probably could have though probably NOT as easy. Dancing (and dancing WELL) is a total DHV.

No, I agree Jake... I've wondered the same thing. I think it may come down to confidence (god, I'm sure that hasn't been repeated about a billion times on this board...) I've found that when I'm dancing at a club, for tips, it's easier to build up a rapport with women. Perhaps it's because they came for the sole purpose of being entertained, or because I'm running around nearly naked, but it's a far different story when I'm out with friends at the normal college bars around here. It's been months since I've had a ONS with anyone I've met from a bar where I'm there with clothes on. Perhaps it's because I wouldn't generally start dancing with a girl then immediately move to slide my fingers down south - it'd be a bit risky in a normal bar situation... I'd expect to get slapped, or tossed out by the doorman if things went wrong. In this case, though, I wasn't worried about anything... I just went for it, and scored without thinking a second thought.

Truth be told, I'm not even that great a dancer - which does seem to be a flaw in the DHV argument... unless dancing well isn't necessary for you to demonstrate that HV - but merely by getting up and dancing in the first place you set yourself apart? If that was the case, though, everyone who danced at a normal bar would end up going home with someone at least some of the time... In closing, I think that in this case at least - dancing for tips - most people really don't care if you dance well or not, what they are interested in is your body...

I was up on the bar dancing in my underwear, which shows some serious confidence..

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Ha Ha Ha! Yeah.. I should do that. That will prove my DJ confidence to the chicks at the local TGIF.

Come on dude.. you are a fvcking stripper who dances naked on a stage in front of scores of horny chicks.
You make a couple of hundred dollars in one night from these girls shoving dollar bills down your underwear.
And... at the end of the night, you had sex with one of them. Wow! what a shocker!!

I am surprised that you even bothered to post this because, to a person in your business, this should be common place.
I am not knocking your profession either but this is like a wh0re posting a field report on a "get-guys" forum for single girls.

In future, please dont call experiences of this nature a "Field Report".
Most of us (at least I) dont relate to your "field" and we dont learn anything.
The whole thing only makes us feel like a chump for not being as lucky as you are. I hope that wasn't your intention.

Actually, no... I started doing this 2 months ago, and have only danced at 3 different places on 5 different occassions. This was the first time that anything like this has happened after, though, which was why I'd posted. If it happens more frequently, then you're right - I won't post... but as they say, "There's a first time for everything..."

Lemme ask you this what happened to the decent guys who don't do any of that crap god I hope they didn't all turn into guys like you and actually I'm knocking your career choice even I a handicapped woman could have found a better career choice than that, it's sick.

A little unsheathed action...

Glad to hear you admitting you've played a few times with no protection.
It's not a good habit, as you know, and I'll tell you something - I went through a rough patch with some very unsettling symptoms last year.
I was tested for infectious diseases, and it turned out my suffering was only mono, but it scared the bejeezus out of me.

lol. Always wear a condom. I had a couple of bad experiences with that, NEVER will I go back to that dark place again.

Originally posted by aprildawn
Lemme ask you this what happened to the decent guys who don't do any of that crap god I hope they didn't all turn into guys like you and actually I'm knocking your career choice even I a handicapped woman could have found a better career choice than that, it's sick.

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The 'decent guys who don't do any of that crap' are probably sitting at home not getting laid.