Ok, I met this girl probably a year ago now and we have hung out three times, the first of which I was money. I met her at the bar and girls came up to me and it did wonders for my social proof. She was digging me although she had a bf and made a weird comment. I thought initially we were going out as friends, but have always liked her, she is pretty smokin. She made a comment, "If you are ever going to be my boyfriend, you are going to have to stop acting like that." This was said in response to me saying, "I dont buy girls drinks." My roommate and some other friends were with me as well and we took separate cars to go get food, I had her take the car with my roommate and I took the car with another friend. Since the cars were basically 2 seaters and I didnt drive, I had her go with my roommate. Apparently she was asking him about me and whatnot during the drive. We get back to my place, eat food, flirt, then venture up to my room. I was basically scared since I had never done this before. She was pretty wasted and it was like 5AM before she left, wtf was I thinking? I walked her back to her place and hugged her.
OK, the next time she came over was when she was got off work, it was like 2 or 3am when she got here and she stayed until at least 4, we talked a bit and then proceeded to play cards. We took a few shots of Jager (her favorite drink besides baileys) and I kept on winning. I then decided to implement a wager. I suggested she give me a massage if I won the hand, she wasnt having it. then I suggested something like dinner and she was cool with it, "just tell me the time and place", she said. Then she made a comment along the lines of, "I can see your tunnel vision" Implying she knew I wanted sex. I was being too blunt about it and not smooth enough. So, I walked her out and hugged her again.
Tonite she comes over for only about a half hour and we chat a bit, I inject sex into the convo after I ask her if anything funny or weird happened at the bar she worked at. She then told me that a couple that is having an affair constantly comes in and has sex in the bathroom and in their car outside. Im like, wow, thats wild, "whats the wildest thing you have ever done sexually?" She then says that she had sex in the baseball dugout, with her current boyfriend. For some reason the convo veered into the realm of chiropractic medicine, she says shes addicted to the chiropracter and knows some techniques. I ask her if she can try some on me and she says yes, I also ask her if I can try them on her afterwards, I continue to flirt with her and then sit next to her to play cards with her. We play blackjack everytime and Im pretty lucky and shes kind of an idiot card player so I could prob win everytime anyway. I win and she keeps downing the Jager and Vodka, but she initially set the hands we played to only 5 and then she had to leave cause she had a lot to do tmw. So, basically she leaves, I walk her out, hug her and almost reach for the kiss but dont do it. I lightly brush her breast, she smiles and leaves.
I asked her previously if she would go to Six Flags with me, she said yes and that we would have to schedule a date. This girl knows I want her sexually, do you think she is just waiting for me to make the first move? I mean she knows that I dont want her strictly as a friend, but im not sure what to do about the whole bf thing. I mean she comes over my place really late and drinks with me, but I have never put the moves on her because of the bf. and like all the articles say, girls dont wanna seem like sluts or just dont make the first move. I am a novice in this department. I can talk to them fine, but when it comes to the kissing/sex transition I faulter. She says she will call me tmw and/or Friday so we can hangout again because I just graduated and will be leaving college at the end of the month. What should I do?
ALL I WANT IS GRATUITOUS SEX, NO RELATIONSHIP, SO SAVE THE LECTURES PLEASE
OK, the next time she came over was when she was got off work, it was like 2 or 3am when she got here and she stayed until at least 4, we talked a bit and then proceeded to play cards. We took a few shots of Jager (her favorite drink besides baileys) and I kept on winning. I then decided to implement a wager. I suggested she give me a massage if I won the hand, she wasnt having it. then I suggested something like dinner and she was cool with it, "just tell me the time and place", she said. Then she made a comment along the lines of, "I can see your tunnel vision" Implying she knew I wanted sex. I was being too blunt about it and not smooth enough. So, I walked her out and hugged her again.
Tonite she comes over for only about a half hour and we chat a bit, I inject sex into the convo after I ask her if anything funny or weird happened at the bar she worked at. She then told me that a couple that is having an affair constantly comes in and has sex in the bathroom and in their car outside. Im like, wow, thats wild, "whats the wildest thing you have ever done sexually?" She then says that she had sex in the baseball dugout, with her current boyfriend. For some reason the convo veered into the realm of chiropractic medicine, she says shes addicted to the chiropracter and knows some techniques. I ask her if she can try some on me and she says yes, I also ask her if I can try them on her afterwards, I continue to flirt with her and then sit next to her to play cards with her. We play blackjack everytime and Im pretty lucky and shes kind of an idiot card player so I could prob win everytime anyway. I win and she keeps downing the Jager and Vodka, but she initially set the hands we played to only 5 and then she had to leave cause she had a lot to do tmw. So, basically she leaves, I walk her out, hug her and almost reach for the kiss but dont do it. I lightly brush her breast, she smiles and leaves.
I asked her previously if she would go to Six Flags with me, she said yes and that we would have to schedule a date. This girl knows I want her sexually, do you think she is just waiting for me to make the first move? I mean she knows that I dont want her strictly as a friend, but im not sure what to do about the whole bf thing. I mean she comes over my place really late and drinks with me, but I have never put the moves on her because of the bf. and like all the articles say, girls dont wanna seem like sluts or just dont make the first move. I am a novice in this department. I can talk to them fine, but when it comes to the kissing/sex transition I faulter. She says she will call me tmw and/or Friday so we can hangout again because I just graduated and will be leaving college at the end of the month. What should I do?
ALL I WANT IS GRATUITOUS SEX, NO RELATIONSHIP, SO SAVE THE LECTURES PLEASE
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