A really really long time ago (like prolly a year ago,) before i knew anything about girls, i knew this girl. I had oneitis like hell, and she totally ljbf'd me, why? because i was a freaking Pu$$y! lol. Now, my skills are well developed and i'm gonna hang out w/ her this weekend for old time's sake. She was one of my best friends that we're girls and i'm not looking to hook up or anything. I just was wondering if the NEW me, might change things for her? This is completely just out of curiosity. I HAVE lost 50+ lbs, and my wardrobe is a lot more developed. I'm just kinda wondering if anyone else has had a similar experience.

no no no, you've got me all wrong man. I'm just mearly thinking on a scientific note. I dont give a fukk WHAT she thinks of me. Believe me. I wouldn't even CONSIDER hooking up or anything. I'm just wondering because of mere psycological knowledge of women.

to answer your question YES. it can happen, though it matters totally on her it has been known to happen with other DJ's.

I wouldn't even CONSIDER hooking up or anything.

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Then why do you care?

This is completely just out of curiosity.

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Hmmm..... sounds like your hiding the true reason from yourself.

I HAVE lost 50+ lbs, and my wardrobe is a lot more developed.

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CONGRATULATIONS!!!! though

In all seriousness It seems to me you either have anger towards her or you havn't let go... maybe it's something else. But If you really want to advance to the next level of DJism your going to need to learn to move on.

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Yeah its possible, because the samething happened to me and now I have this girl who LJBF'd me a long time ago, who can't get enough of me now... but its my turn to LJBF

hahah, i can see your reasoning, but i hold zero feelings towards her. It was just a small thought i had, for any situation where a LJBF started liking the guy or something. I would've posted a similar topic regardless, i was just using my previous situation as an example. It seems no one believes me but yea. haha.

As many times as people say it's impossible to get out of the friends zone, I believe that it isn't. It just depends on your situation. If you've changed, and she notices it and that you never needed her in the first place I think there's a good chance that she'll consider you as more than a friend.

Women never forget, so the odds are pretty damn slim.