Well, I'm pretty sure me and my girlfriend are gonna be breaking up - she went MIA all day yesterday and I found out she was with a guy friend that she admitted to me early on in our relationship that she had a crush on - I didn't even ask if anything happened, but she was really cold and moody, I could tell something was going on - then today she picks a fight with me over AIM...AIM for christs sake!

It's been a long time since I've had to deal with this kind of crap, and I almost forgot how much it really sucks - I don't deal with emotional trauma very well, which probably explains the three year gap between girlfriends... I think I'm gonna let her go, my gut says so...it's really too bad, I really liked this one - ah f*ck it, if it doesn't kill me it'll make me stronger right? No point to my post, just wanted to get it out.

Well, hate to say it but shes doing what most girls do when they want to break up, act coldly, like a beotch and pick an arguement with you so that they dont feel as guilty about breaking up.

You my friend have to beat her to the punch to save your self respect and gain some control. You break up with her!! If shes been going out with a guy that she has already admitted she had a crush on..shes gone, plus thats a huge slap to your face. The only thing you can do is save self confidnece and end things on your terms...good luck.

I feel for ya, I'm going through the same thing. (Well.....not the crush part or arguement)

Agreed. No big scene, just dump her and find someone new.

Awwww! Sorry Kid! Want me to go smack her for you?


(Picking a fight over AIM? Least she could have done was to call on the phone!)

throw an apple at her head.

Boy, this sounds familiar

Yeah, my ex g/f (who I live with but am moving out soon) does that same bull****. Start fights for no reason, then gets pissed when I won't play along.

It's actually kind of funny, because she'll try so hard to argue over something (usually things that used to set me off before I wised up), then she realizes she can't get a rise out of me so she walks away all pissed off.

I swear, she picks fights just to flip it on me so I look like the bad guy no matter what.

Get a life, woman!

oops. double post